Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

I am so sorry to hear of your passing, I lost my partner and best friend Damacio Montano in 2002, my heart goes out to your family, friends and loved ones as well as your brothers and sisters in law enforcement. I have never forgotten my partner as yours will never forget you. Time does not heal all wounds in loss, but time does make the pain of your passing subside. You have given what few will ever give, and may your service to your community and your country not go in vain. May your family find peace in your memory.

Deputy Simon Heffron
Valencia County Sheriff's Dept, NM

October 8, 2004

How ironic that you served the people of NYC for twenty years and surive. Now in your retirement you pay the supreme price for procecting the people of this great land. This marks the second NYC Police Department Officer killed in the line of duty after retirement this year. It's in our blood. Rest in peace my friend. The whole Department morns for you.

PO Mack
NYCPD ESU

October 8, 2004

“When God made Peace Officers….”

When the lord was creating Peace Officers, he was into his sixth day of overtime when an angel appeared and said, “You’re doing a lot of fiddling around on this one.”

And the Lord said, Have you read the spec on this order? A Peace Officer has to be able to run five miles through alleys in the dark, scale walls, enter homes the health inspector wouldn’t touch, and not wrinkle their uniform.

They have to be able to sit in an undercover car all day on a stakeout, cover a homicide scene that night, canvass the neighborhood for witnesses, and testify in court the next day.

They have to be in top physical condition at all times, running on black coffee and half- eaten meals. And they have to have six pairs of hands.

The angel shook her head slowly and said, “Six pairs of hands….No Way.”

“It’s not the hands that are causing me the problems,” said the Lord, “It’s the three pairs of eyes an officer has to have.”

That’s on the standard model? asked the angel.

The Lord nodded. One pair that sees through a bulge in a pocket before he asks, “May I see what’s in there sir?” (When they already know and wishes they had taken that accounting job.) Another pair here in the side of their head for their partners’ safety. And another pair of eyes here in front that can look reassuringly at a bleeding victim and say, “ You’ll be alright ma’am, when they know it isn’t so.”

“Lord,” said the angel, touching his sleeve,” rest and work tomorrow.”

“I can’t,” said the Lord, “I already have a model that can talk a 250 pound drunk into a patrol car without incident and feed a family of five on civil service paycheck.”

The angel circled the model of the Peace Officer very slowly, “Can it think?” she asked.

“You bet,” said the Lord, “It can tell you elements of a hundred crimes, recite Miranda warnings in it’s sleep; detain, investigate, search, and arrest a gang member on the street in less time than it takes five judges to debate the legality of the stop…and still it keeps it’s sense of humor.

This officer also has phenomenal personal control. They can deal with crime scenes painted in HELL, coax a confession from a child abuser, comfort a murder victim’s family’ and then read in the daily paper how Law Enforcement isn’t sensitive to the rights of criminal suspects.

Finally, the angel bent over and ran her finger across the cheek of the Peace Officer. “There’s a leak,” she pronounced. “I told you that you were trying to put too much into this model.”

“That’s not a leak,” said the Lord, “It’s a tear.”

“What’s the tear for?” asked the angel.

“It’s for bottled-up emotions, for fallen comrades, for commitment to that funny piece of cloth called the American flag, and for justice.”

“You’re a genius,” said the angel.

The Lord looked sober. “I didn’t put it there,” he said.


Anonymous

Senior Instructor
Federal Law Enforcement Training Center

October 8, 2004

GOD BLESS YOU SIR, MAY YOU WATCH OVER MYSELF AND MY FELLOW BROTHERS. I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.... GODSPEED!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PO...
BUFFALO NY PD

October 8, 2004

Trooper Haywood is the brother-in-law of an old co-worker of mine. I want his family and brother officers to know that they are in my thoughts and prayers.I'm wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow and comfort in the midst of pain.His memory will never fade away, so try and find comfort in those memories.....God bless....

Ret.P.O.L.Cruz
NYCPD

October 7, 2004

We are deeply saddened at Darryl's loss.
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We all recall you gave your best.
You did your job, now you can rest.
Your comrades now can cover your post
as you take your place with the Heavenly Host.

God Bless Our Fallen Brothers & Sisters.
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Our prayers will be with you, your family, and co-workers!

Ptlm. P.K. Harding
Binghamton (NY) P.D.

October 7, 2004

Dear One's...Family, co-workers,friends & community.

There must be a reason that we can't see, There must be a reason why, A reason that we must take on faith As we do the sun on high...For we know that life is a journey-Sometimes long & sometimes brief-A journey on which we all find joy Mingled with sadness & grief...So try to remember the joy today, However hard it may be, And trust you'll find comfort when you know The reason you now can't see. (Credited to:Helen Farries/1984) As surviving parents of almost 11 months we truly feel the loss of Trooper Haywood. Our daily thoughts & prayers are with you as we tred this road TOGETHER that none of us want to be on. From the heart of Survivor Mom of California HP Officer (CHP) #9490 EOW 11/19/03.

October 7, 2004

REST IN PEACE TROOPER HAYWOOD. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SACRIFICE TO KEEP OTHERS SAFE. AS THE WIFE OF A FLORIDA STATE LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER AND THE DAUGHTER OF A RETIRED FLORIDA STATE TROOPER I KNOW HOW SCARY IT IS WHEN YOUR OFFICER LEAVES HOME TO GO TO WORK I ALSO UNDERSTAND THE SACRIFICE THAT IS MADE BY THE FAMILY OF THAT OFFICER, BUT WE MUST LET THEM GO FOR THIS IS TRULY A PART OF WHO THEY ARE AND WE WOULD HAVE THEM NO OTHER WAY. MAY GOD BE WITH YOUR FAMILY. KEEP YOUR WATCH FROM HEAVEN AND WATCH OVER THE ONES LEFT BEHIND TO CARRY ON.

LAW ENFORCEMENT WIFE AND DAUGHTER, FLORIDA

October 7, 2004

Words cannot express the sorrow we feel with the loss of Trooper Haywood. He was a great Detective here in NYC and in reading the words of his fellow Troopers I can see he was just as Great as a Trooper.
Rest in Peace Brother.

Det Anthony Trocchio
New York City Highway Patrol

October 7, 2004

My thoughts and prayers are with Trooper Haywoods family and friends. It is a sad day for us but for Trooper Haywood it is a Happy one for he is in a better place now. The officers today do not receive the appreciation they deserve. Trooper Haywood Thank You for your hard work and long hours doing a job you loved. You can Rest in Peace your shift is over.

October 7, 2004

Rest in Peace Trooper

Missouri State Hwy. Patrol

October 7, 2004

Trooper Haywood "Shaggy"

Your smile seemed to glow and make any situation relaxed. The competition of who could put the most lights on their patrol car was without a doubt won by you and the FHP / UFO. You will be greatly missed by more people than one could imagine. Your fellow troopers have been with your family every night and are deeply saddened by your untimely loss. Look down and keep us safe, rest in peace.

Inv. Brian Henderson
Volusia County Sheriff's Office

October 6, 2004

Such a tragic loss of another American hero. My sympathy goes to the family. There should be laws in such cases that would allow the person being pursued when an Officer is killed to be held liable for thier death.

Sgt. B. Franklin
Maury Co. Sheriff Dept.

October 6, 2004

Rest in peace, brother, you are a true American Hero. God Bless your family in these tragic times

Ofc. Meleski
Department Of Veterans Affairs Police

October 6, 2004

My deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences go out to the family of Trooper Darryl L. Haywood.

I met Trooper Haywood almost 20 years when he was part of my father New York City Police Commissioner Benjamin Ward's security team. He was tall, quiet, and always had a smile on his face despite my father's hectic schedule. He was a consummate gentleman and professional. A true gentle soul.

Trooper Haywood served my father well. He served the NYPD well. He served the Florida State Troopers well. He served his community. He served us all well.

He was a good man. He will be greatly missed.

Mary Ward, daughter of former NYPD Commi

October 6, 2004

Trooper Haywood, you are a true American hero. Thank you for your service and ultimate sacrifice given in the interest of the safety of the public. The citizens of Florida should be proud to have had you serve as a state trooper in their state. May God bless you and your family.

Cadet D. Boyle
Vincennes University Police Department

October 6, 2004

Thank you Trooper Haywood for trying to make I-4 a safer place for all of us. I lost a child to a careless driver on I-4 in 2000. GOD bless you, your family, friends, and coworkers during this time of grief and loss. We'll all see you soon in a much better place than this!

Deputy Sheriff
POLK County Sheriff's Office, Florida

October 6, 2004

Godspeed Brother Trooper

3725
Colorado State Patrol

October 6, 2004

Trooper Haywood is a shinning example of what we all should strive for a be. An excellent servant to the public in New York and then to the citizens of Flordia. Rest in peace brother for you are not alone. To the Haywood family from your extended family in the Oklahoma Highway Patrol our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Trooper Steve Nabors #586
Oklahoma Highway Patrol

October 6, 2004

Another one of America's street foot soldiers has paid the supreme sacrifice. I lost my partner/friend earlier this year (July 20, 2004) so my thoughts and prayers go out to the Family, Friends and the Florida Highway Patrol. Rest in Peace Brother Haywood and go enjoy the Highway in the Sky.

Police Officer II Shane Schapiro 0668
Maryland Transportation Authority Police (Lane Bridge US RTE 50)

October 6, 2004

In the blink of an eye for the way that he tried, he paid the ultimate price.... Along with all others whom we honor each spring with words that we speak and the songs that we sing. Lies the question we all ask, which no one can say.....This man gave his all....Did I come close today?

God Bless and Keep the Haywood Family

A brother in arms

October 6, 2004

Thank your for your service to your fellow Americans. My deepest thought go out to your family, friends, and co-workers during this difficult time. Salute!

P.O.
Michigan

October 6, 2004

Dedicated to OUR FALLEN HERO:

We will forever remember October 2, 2004, when our Trooper made his last call.

We honor his memory and his deeds. He placed society above his earthly needs.

We remember the last time we joked together at roll call, the last trip he made down the hall.

The last words of encouragement, instruction, and wisdom we heard.

We remember his smile, his jokes, and his wit. The boundless enthusiasm for his life's work, all with regret.

We shall remember him long after those he served shall forget.

We remember that last call, where he was called upon to give his all.

The last call from our friend answered in the line of duty, was not of man. It was a call to peace, a call to rest, for our friend had given his best,and has passed every test....when GOD called him home!!

To the family of Trp. Haywood:

We as dispatchers of the Florida Highway Patrol extend our deepest sympathy. Everyday, I pray for the saftey & protection of our Troopers. Even though I am not a physical part of your famiy, as a FHP Dispatcher, we are ALL family, looking out for one another. I pray that GOD sends HIS HOLY SPIRIT to comfort you and to strengthen you all. Know that Trp. Haywood is in a better place and he wouldn't trade places for the nothing in the world.
Continue to trust in GOD! Continue to be there for each other like you've always been....and I promise you God WILL see you through this! HE Promised in HIS Word that HE will never leave nor forsake you.....and HE CAN NOT LIE!!

-FHP Dispatchers 2004

The Dispatchers of
Florida Highway Patrol

October 6, 2004

Your badge has grown some WINGS, and you are working the beat of Heaven.
To the family, friends and extended family of Trooper Haywood my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
My father worked for many years with FHP, (till his passing), he worked in the communications center and all the troopers are like a extened famliy to my family and I.
To Trooper Haywood,
Please keep a watch on your family, and fellow co-workes gfrom the Heavens above, for I will keep them all in my thoughts and prayers. You are a true unsung hero,,, God bless,,

Laura L Morgan
St.Johns Co.So. (St Augustine Fl.)

October 6, 2004

My deepest sympathy to the Haywood family. My prayers are with all of you at this very trying time. May God watch over all of you.

Robert Gordon, father of
Michael P. Gordon, EOW: August 8, 2004

Robert Gordon, Asst. Chief (Ret)
Riverside PD, IL

October 6, 2004