Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Patrol Officer Patrick Michael Righi-Barnard

Burbank Police Department, Illinois

End of Watch Thursday, November 25, 2004

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Reflections for Patrol Officer Patrick Michael Righi-Barnard

You are remembered today and thank you Sir for your service

Pat Van Den Berghe, Manchester, NH
Neighbors for a Better Manchester, NH

November 27, 2007

Patrick,
I've missed you so this past year - even more than before. I know that's not what you want but I really am trying. Stacey and Austin are great to me but he is her son not my. I miss our conversations - we talked over everything - even things we shouldn't have. I miss your smile - sometimes wondering what was behind it. I thank God that you made such wonderful friends - they are what keeps me going. Somehow I feel your presents when I am with them. I'm still look for my purpose - why I'm still here. I promise not to give up until I find it.
You are always in my heart!!!!

Mom

November 26, 2007

Thinking of your loved ones on this 3rd anniversary. Continue to keep watch over them, especially your Mom, such a wonderful, kind hearted woman. You are a true hero and have not been forgotten.

Bob Gordon
Father of Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04

November 25, 2007

Trent and Diana got married Saturday and it just wasn't the same without you there though we know you were there in spirit. Your mom did a wonderful job on the readings during the ceremony. And we all shed tears listening to the bagpipes. Nugie lifted you up in his best mans speech and we all shared a good laugh when he told Maize that though she wanted him to say Trent was an angel we all knew different. He does have a lighter side and that is because of you and now Diana. She reminds me of you ... always laughing and finding joy in life. Keep that alive in all of us - will you?

Miss you.

Jennifer

November 20, 2007

Does anyone have pictures that everyone can see to keep Pat's memory alive. Maybe all family and friends that have photos can upload them onto my space. Whenever everyone is ready. Pat's heart was his smile and spirit!!!!!!! Let's all remember that SMILE!!!!! WE MISS YOU.

October 30, 2007

Hi,
I was driving past your place today and had to laugh. I remember how you were so mad that your bike took up HALF your balcony.... You were so funny, you put up a HOOK to place it up higher and it fell about an hour later on MY head.... I miss you! .... Christina

October 30, 2007

Pat, the golf outing was another success all of your friends were their I golfed with big Rick this year we had a good time we talked about you alot, sure miss you buddy. with love....Dad.

October 29, 2007

Hey there PB...Just getting your myspace page up and running. Your mom and I talked about it at the golf outing and I am trying to get it done but you see how crazy the little one is. She's a handful and consumes most of my time. Just wanted to get the word out that it is up but still being perfected so people can send us friend requests if they themselves are on myspace. They can contact me for info or Cathy can direct them my way. I think this year we are joining your p's at SR's for turkey day - you will be the guest of honor as always ;) Thanks for your constant presence in all our lives. You are terribly missed.

Shannon

October 24, 2007

Just thinking of you pal!!

AT

October 24, 2007

Sunny days seem to hurt the most
Wear the pain like a heavy coat
I feel you everywhere I go
I see your smile, I see your face
I hear you laughing in the rain
Still can't believe you're gone

Chorus:

It ain't fair you died too young
Like a story that had just begun
The death tore the pages all away
God knows how I miss you
All the hell that I've been through
Just knowing no one could take your place
Sometimes I wonder who you'd be today

Would you see the world?
Would you chase your dreams?
Settle down with a family?
I wonder, what would you name your babies?
Some days the sky's so blue
I feel like I can talk to you
And I know it might sound crazy


Chesney couldn't describe it better, Pat. Sunny days like today do hurt the most and its not fair that ur not here, i miss you more than you know.

October 4, 2007

Hard to believe that the 3rd Annual Memorial Golf Outing has come and gone! To see all of your friends and family get involved shows what an important impact you had on all of us. It was truly a day to smile and remember - though just as you would have it I'm not sure what some of us remember after getting back to Wayne's. :) One thing is for sure ... you will never be forgotten!!

Jennifer

September 24, 2007

Well Buddy in a couple days we are all going to gather for our 3rd annual golf tournament to honor you. I can't believe it has been almost 3 years and how much I miss you. All of your friends are coming down from up north, Adam,ALEX,Perez,Art,Roger and several from Burbank, along with all your frat. bros. I love you and miss you. Dad

September 19, 2007

Saturday is rapidly approaching with so many of your friends coming into Tremont for your 3rd Memorial Golf Outing - how can that be - you were coming home only yesterday - I miss you every day - more at times like this - try as hard as I can - my life will never be the same without you - there is such a void that no one can fill - just know I do this because I love you.
Forever in my heart!!

Mom

September 19, 2007

Pat, Thinking of you and your family.

Tara

September 11, 2007

Just wanted to let you know that there will be alot of guys from Burbank at the golf outing this year. We are all looking forward to it and seeing your mom. I have your clubs so we will see how good I do!

friend
Burbank

September 11, 2007

Hi Pat! Our 15 year class reunion was Saturday night. It was so strange not having you there but I know you were there in spirit. Your mom came and was able to see everyone who was able to make it. Jennifer King put together a great book and your mom wrote a letter and put in an article that is going to published. I don't know that I'll ever be able to read it without shedding a few tears. They aren't always sad tears though because I know you would rather they be tears of joy. Joy at all the memories we made over the years. We miss you so much!

Thinking of you everyday ...

Jennifer

September 4, 2007

Pat,
I was was thinking of you all day. I think that you try to get me to open my eyes at times and laugh at things a lot more because you pop into my head at such strange times and remind me to just see things so different, so beautifuly.!!! :) My daughter is getting baptised this Sunday. I wish she had the chance to know you. I miss you. Christina

August 31, 2007

I remember you in school always having a smile on your face that would light up a room instantly & always taking as much as you could dish out. You are missed so much & the class of '92 has definately lost an asset.

RS


friend

August 30, 2007

Hey Pat saw your mom at Perezs wedding 2nite and seeing her always reminds me to drop a line and say hello to you on this site. I see so much of u inside of her.... (specially on the dance floor hahaha :) ) its very comforting u live thru her and everyone can see it!!!! Luv ya and miss ya - C Knapp

Catherine Knapp RCO
Alsip PD

August 19, 2007

Miss you more today than I thought possible.

August 10, 2007

Buddy, we are getting things geared up for our 3rd golf outing to honor you, mom and i MISS YOU SO MUCH love... dad

August 3, 2007

Pat,
Just wanted to say "HI". I heard a song and thought of you today. I felt you there too! I pray for your Mom,Dad and family everyday and know your with them. I can't help but think about the song "I'm already home" Tim MaGraw. It's about so many things we talked about! GOD Blessed you!
LOVE, Christina

August 2, 2007

JUST SAYIN HI PAL AND THINKING OF YOU!

ADAM
PD MIDLOTHIAN

August 1, 2007

Hey Pat! We met with your mom last night to get the scoop on this years golf outing. She and your dad put so much heart into planning! It's going to be a great time for everyone! I'm so happy to be a part of it since you were such a great friend.

Miss you lots.

Jennifer

August 1, 2007

HEY PAL, JUST THINKIN OF U AND U MISS U BEING AROUND!!

A.T.

July 4, 2007

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