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Police Officer Bryan Scott Hurst

Columbus Division of Police, Ohio

End of Watch Thursday, January 6, 2005

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Reflections for Police Officer Bryan Scott Hurst

Officer Hurst:

Had I known this site existed I certainly would have written sooner to express my gratitude.

On January 6, 2005, I was working at a business not more than 500 yards away from the bank where you were tragically taken. The incident occurred early in the day so needless to say my staff and I were on edge the entire day as we saw helicopters and police cars circuling the area thinking that this coward was still in the area. Had I known at that moment what I know now, that you wounded this punk and hindered his ability to hurt anyone else, I would have been able to be more at ease and would have been able to grieve for you and your family instead of fearing for my own safety.

No man or woman can be more dedicated to his or her job if he or she pays the ultimate price, and you did so for the sake of the people you were sworn to protect - and you did so with honor and courage and for that, I salute you. I hold you, a complete stranger, in the higher regard than I do most people I know personally. May God continue to bless those, particularly your wife and your daughter, who still suffer from your departure.

Sincerely,

A Grateful Columbus Citizen

Grateful Columbus Citizen

November 22, 2005

Bryan-

Well, it sure was a great weekend for OSU fans and I know you were going crazy up there. I remember every January when it was time for you to put in requests for time off for the following year. You were always scrambling for an OSU schedule so there was no question that you would be off for the Michigan game. As for your other favorites, I have to admit that I have not been following the NFL at all this year, so I don't know how your Steelers are doing.

It's been a good week and Malia has had alot of fun. I toted her all over the place today, running errands and doing some Christmas shopping. She was very happy to get to play at the indoor playground at Polaris Mall. Bryan, Miss Malia is proving daily that she is not the most patient little thing. There was a little boy about her age sitting at the top of the slide who wouldn't slide down and Malia just shoved him down so she could get a turn! I have never seen her do anything like that.

After we got home, I enjoyed spending an hour with my staple gun, attempting to put my couches back together after the puppy practically ripped them apart. He is such a little sh*t sometimes. All I will say is that he better be a good guard dog when he grows up. He is really testing my patience but makes up for it because he is so darn cute.

This week is Thanksgiving! It will be kind of sad because I will be at work but at least Malia gets to be with family. Everyone is looking forward to seeing her and I know she'll have a blast. She will be taking the second plane ride of her life!

As usual, I starting decorating for Christmas waaay to early. I bought a 12' tree, which looked awesome at the store but is downright overwhelming in my living room. Even on the top step of my ladder, I can't reach the top so I guess the top two feet or so will just be bare. Oh well.

Well, it's time to get to bed. I will write again soon.

Love,
Marissa and Malia

Marissa
DCSO

November 21, 2005

How 'bout them BUCKS baby!!

Ward
CPD

November 21, 2005

Ahhhh, what a wonderful day in Buckeye land! I hope you enjoyed the game. I know I did.

This is my first time leaving a reflection. However, I come to this site everyday to check on our brothers. I have enjoyed reading Marissa's notes to you.

I need to get out to your place to see how your doing. I wasn't able to get out after the funeral, but I'll make it soon.

A real good friend of mine works with Marissa and I check on her through him. You, her and Malia will always be in our thoughts.

Take care and I'll visit soon.

Stumpy

P.O. Bryon A. Stumph
CPD #2260 187C

November 20, 2005

....and Michigan still SUCKS!!! I bet you loved that game yesterday :)

A friend

November 20, 2005

Im sure you were looking down today celebrating and cheering on your Buckeyes as they beat the team from up north!...........You were a good man Brian!

Det. Dan Jones #2079 (Med.Ret.) 95th
Columbus, Ohio Division of Police

November 19, 2005

Semper Fi

Ptl Brian A. Steel
Madison NJ PD

November 18, 2005

When I heard the tragic news...all I could think of was, "Why couldn't I have been there, to back you up...to help you take this bad guy down." Given the opportunity, I know you would have been there for me brother. Although we hardly knew one another, I remember your hearty smile...your willingness to jump onto the front lines with your fellow officers. You are a true hero Bryan. As I look up to Heaven, I salute you.

Retired P.O. Dan Cockerham
Columbus Div. of Police

November 16, 2005

Bryan,
I was thinking of you on Veteran's day as I watched dad throw the wreath off the bridge. Its guys like you that make this world a better place and for that I can not thank you enough.

a friend

November 15, 2005

Bryan-

I am trying to make this a regular thing to write on my day off, but sometimes I just can't. Whenever I leave a post, I get flooded with calls or emails wanting me to further explain on what I write. "So, what did you mean by ____?" You would not believe the questions people ask me....of course, I realize this is a forum that everyone can read and leave their thoughts, but damn, let them be my thoughts and not an invitation to a question and answer session with Marissa. Okay, I feel better now :)

Well, your headstone is finally up and it is awesome. The crystal etch of your portrait, CPD badge, and USMC emblem are amazing. I don't think the lettering is exactly how I requested that it be, but still looks good. I hate to be picky, but it has to be perfect. Under your portrait is the quote "In Valor there is Hope." As a lot of cops know, that is the main theme of the Police Memorial in DC, so I thought it would be fitting. The quote is so true.

We had a motion hearing last week in federal court. It was sickening to look at Lawrence in court. He is as disgusting as anyone could imagine. Just from his expressions and general demeanor, it is obvious to me that he feels no remorse. He seemed very casual about the whole matter - odd for someone facing the death penalty. Sitting not far from me was a young woman holding a baby girl who appeared to be about Malia's age. She HAD to be his daughter because they looked exactly alike. As she was sleeping, all I could think was that neither she nor Malia will grow up with their fathers. For very different reasons of course, but they will both still be fatherless. At least Malia will grow up knowing that her daddy died with honor and not as a criminal.

Christmas is coming and I got Malia her dress for her photo with Santa. Remember last year? We got her all dressed up with her red plaid dress and stupid velvet headband (you know how I despise those things) and took her to JC Penney. She refused to sit still and screamed at the people taking her pictures. Nothing worked but I was determined to get her pictures taken for Christmas cards. We finally gave up and left. But, before leaving the mall, we thought, "What the hell, Let's have her see Santa." As soon as she sat on his lap, she was grinning from ear to ear and squealing with happiness. All of the other babies were terrified of that Santa, but Malia was thrilled. Five minutes later, we had the best Christmas picture ever. It was your favorite picture of Malia and that is why it was buried with you, right in your shirt pocket.

Donnie and Lori had Jacoby's 2nd birthday party over the weekend. Last year, they had it in early December. I remember that because we have pictures of you, Malia and I standing in front of their Christmas tree. I believe those were the last pictures we had taken with all three of us. Anyways, it reminded me of just how close to a year we are getting. It seems unreal.

I will try to write later this week. Gotta pick Malia up.

Love you,
Marissa and Malia

Marissa
DCSO

November 14, 2005

Gump, Happy Veteran's Day!! I celebrated the final OSU home game with your brother. One week to Michigan brother!! I'll stop by Friday and see your headstone and drink a beer. If you can find Woody and tell him that "We dont give a damn about the whole state of Michigan, the whole state of Michigan, the whole state of Michigan. We dont give a damn about the whole state of Michigan........ WE'RE FROM OHIO!!"

Andrew Ward
CPD

November 12, 2005

Dear Bryan, I first want to honor and thank-you for your service as a Marine and an officer. You gave the ultimated sacrifice in order that others may live. You gave to provide the very freedom that allows us to live not just survive. To your family, your wife, your daughter, your friends and co-workers the deepest sympathy is extended from me and my family. We know your loss as my brother was also taken from us in the line of duty. He was also a marine, killed approx. 2 weeks after his 34th birthday and about a month before his 3rd wedding anniversary. We continue to struggle without him. Comfort is seldom found in words but I offer them to you. Unfortunately so many of us know your grief. So many times we ask why. Searching for the answer that may bring and end to our suffering. I have not to date found one. These words were printed on the back of shirts in honor of my brother. "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God." Bryan is with his brothers and sisters who also gave the ultimate sacrifice. He can now be with each and everyone of you all the time, as he couldn't here on earth. We need our gaurdian angels too. God bless your family, and I know Bryan, just as my brother has found peace in the Arms of the Angels. Susan, Pat,and Bill Hewitt.

Susan Hewitt
Sister of SGT. JEFF HEWITT 04/04/04

November 12, 2005

To the family of Officer Hurst,

I am so terribly sorry of your loss. I know how difficult it must be, when life was taken so tragically so suddenly. I visited with a family who lost their son tragically, suddenly, unexpectedly on a beautiful fall morning four years ago, and know how much it hurts. However, with the strong love and support of others, as is abundantly clear and evident here, I know that you all will be able to continue to cherish and honor Officer Hurst's memory, dedication, service, and sacrifice.

My deepest sympathy and condolences.

November 11, 2005

To Officer Bryan Hurst:

On this Veterans Day, I honor your distinquished service to your country.

Phyllis Loya, mother of Larry Lasater,
Pittsburg PD eow 4/24/05

November 11, 2005

HAPPY US MARINES BIRTHDAY!!!

Officer Jim Gilbert
CPD

November 10, 2005

HURST,

Today is the Marine Corps Birthday and I wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday.

MARINES' HYMN

From the halls of Montezuma, to the shores of Tripoli,
We fight our country's battles in the air, on land and sea.
First to fight for right and freedom, and to keep our honor clean;
We are proud to claim the title of United States Marine.

Our Flag's unfurled to every breeze from dawn to setting sun.
We have fought in every clime and place, where we could take a gun.
In the snow of far off northern lands and in sunny tropic scenes,
You will find us always on the job, the United States Marines.

Here's health to you and to our Corps, which we are proud to serve.
In many a strife we've fought for life and never lost our nerve.
If the Army and the Navy ever look on heaven's scenes,
they will find the streets are guarded by United States Marines.

HURST, you upheld the traditions of the Corps to the very end, saving many lives. Honor, courage and valor. I know you're being rewarded in heaven but we all miss you very much down here.

Semper Fi my friend, rest in peace.

Brandon

Brandon C. Walton
Toledo, OH

November 10, 2005

As all Marines on greeted on November 10th, I wanted to say Happy Birthday, Marine. Semper Fi.

November 9, 2005

Judgment Day for a Police Officer

.....Author Unknown

The policeman stood and faced his God,
Which must always come to pass.
He hoped his shoes were shining.
Just as brightly as his brass.

"Step forward now, Policeman.
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To my Church have you been true?"

The policeman squared his shoulders and said,
"No, Lord I guess I ain't,
Because those of us who carry badges
Can't always be a Saint.

I've had to work most Sundays,
And at times my work was rough,
and sometimes I've been violent,
Because the streets are awfully tough.

But I never took a penny,
That wasn't mine to keep,
I worked a lot of overtime
When the bills just got too steep.

And I never passed a cry for help,
Though at times I shook with fear.
And sometimes, God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.

I know I don't deserve a place
among the people here.
They never wanted me around
Except to calm their fear.

If you've a place for me here, Lord
It needn't be so grand.
I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand."

There was silence all around the Throne
Where the Saints had often trod.
As the policeman waited quietly,
For the judgment of his God.

"Step forward now, policeman,
You've borne your burdens well.
Come walk a beat on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in Hell."

Westerville
Ohio

November 5, 2005

95th recruit class....

November 5, 2005

Jim Gilbert
95th Recruit Class

Jim Gilbert
Columbus PD

November 4, 2005

Bryan,

It was 9 years ago today, Nov. 3,1996 I first met you..Our first day at the Columbus Police Academy... We hit it off right away because we had both moved here away from our parents and friends.. Our class will never be the same without you.. Take care of us...

96TH RECRUIT CLASS

Jim Gilbert
Columbus PD

November 3, 2005

Bryan-

Everytime I check this site, I pray that no one new has been added. Honestly, I don't think any of us ever realized how many officers sacrifice their lives in a year...

So much has been going on lately. I think there have been two different benefits since I last wrote. First, there was an awesome motorcycle 'poker' run held in your memory. The bikes did a loop by the bank and then to your gravesite. It was amazing to see the hundreds of motorcycles coming into the cemetery. I brought Malia and she was fascinated by them. I remember how you told me about telling your parents how you were thinking about getting a motorcycle....then just a short time later they got you the Mustang! Guess they really, really, really didn't want you on a bike. I feel the same way usually, but bikes are really starting to grow on me. After the poker run, there was a luncheon at a great Marine Corps diner called Frankie's. You would have loved this place - all USMC memorabalia on the walls. Now, there is a huge plaque hanging in your honor. It looks awesome.

Earlier this week was the Crimestoppers Awards Ceremony, where you were awarded Officer of the Year. Angie, one of the 5/3 Bank employees, read a very emotional letter about what it was like to be in the bank that day. It took a lot of strength for her to get up there, but I'm so glad she did. It was an amazing letter and it was so apparent that the employees will never, ever forget that you laid down your life for them. Bryan, I was so proud of you when she was reading that letter. It was definitely a different perspective for me; I had never considered how this might have affected them. On a side note, I'm sure you were laughing your butt off from above at the enormous plastic security ink tag on my suit jacket that the cashier at the outlet mall forgot to remove. Nothing like accepting an award at the Crimestoppers Breakfast while wearing what appears to be a stolen suit.

Malia has been busy with Halloween activities all week. She has two Halloween costumes - a bunny and a big flower. She wore the bunny to Theresa's party. Malia got to ride a pony and was THRILLED. So, of course, my brain was going a million miles a minute thinking about getting her a pony. Not that you can have one in a subdivision, but I can always dream. I think she will wear the flower costume for Trick or Treat tomorrow night. I know she will love walking around the neighborhood and seeing the other kids.

This will be our first holiday season without you. I've been thinking about that lately. I think there was some type of 'intervention' last year, with me not being back at work yet, since you know cops work every stinkin holiday. We all got to be together last year, at Malia's first Christmas. We had Christmas and New Years, and then everything changed just 5 days later. It still sometimes seems unreal. Christmas will definitely be different this year, but I know you will be watching Malia rip open her gifts. One thing that really sticks out in my mind about last year is you and I taking Malia to the Alum Creek drive-thru light show. We made such a big production about bundling her up and getting her ready and then she slept through the entire thing. That was funny. I'll make sure she sees it this year.

Bryan, you would probably have killed this puppy I got in August. His favorite activities are shredding magazines, newspapers, paper towels and toilet paper. My mom and I made a beautiful fall outdoor display with cornstalks, indian corn, pumpkins, and gourds. Within 2 weeks, he either ate or destroyed 75% of it. Like I said, you would not be happy with him :) The thing is, stuff like that would have really pi**ed me off before, but now the little things don't bother me. Once something truly devastating happens to you, magazine shredding is no big thing. If I can cite one positive thing that has happened out of this, it would be no longer sweating the little things.

We are all awaiting your headstone, which is supposed to be laid within the next week. I know that it will bring peace and maybe the beginning of closure for those who needs it. I know it will be hard to finally see it, because it is a sign of the permanency of the situation. Regardless, we need it there.

We are missing you everyday and every night. Malia and I look at your photos on her dresser every night before she goes to sleep. Keep watching over us and keep us all safe.

We love you.

-Marissa and Malia

p.s. I'll be thinking of you this Nov. 6th. I know you would never let me forget the birthday of the United States Marine Corps!

Marissa
DCSO

October 30, 2005

I thought about you all day today... after working 3rd shift last night I stayed up and did an Honor Guard detail "presentation of Colors" for the Crimestoppers Breakfast.. They awarded you the Officer of the Year Award for your actions at the bank. I worked BankOne today spl. duty and kept playing over and over in my head what that morning must have been like for you.. You were and are a true HERO... please watch over us ...

Officer Jim Gilbert
Columbus Division of Police

October 26, 2005

Just wanted to say that we are all still thinking about you and praying for your loved ones.

P.O. Robert Sagle #2254
Columbus Ohio Division of Police

October 25, 2005

"Who You’d Be Today"

Sunny days seem to hurt the most
I wear the pain like a heavy coat
I feel you everywhere I go
I see your smile
I see your face
I hear you laughing in the rain
I still can’t believe you’re gone
It aint fair you died too young
Like the story that had just begun
But death tore the pages all away
God knows how I miss you
All the hell that I’ve been through
Just knowing no one could take your place
Sometimes I wonder who you’d be today
Would you see the world?
Would you chase your dreams?
Settle down with a family
I wonder what would you name your babies
Some days the sky’s so blue
I feel like I can talk to you
I know it might sound crazy
It aint fair you died too young
Like a story that had just begun
But death tore the pages all away
God knows how I miss you
All the hell that I’ve been through
Just knowing no one could take your place
Sometimes I wonder who you’d be today
Today (repeats 5 more times)
Sunny days seem to hurt the most
I wear the pain like a heavy coat
The only thing that gives me hope
Is I know I’ll see you again some day
Some day
Some day

October 21, 2005

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