Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Probation / Parole Officer Jeffery Matthew McCoy

Oklahoma Department of Corrections, Oklahoma

End of Watch Friday, May 18, 2012

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Reflections for Probation / Parole Officer Jeffery Matthew McCoy

Rest easy

Mark Mottola

May 18, 2020

Rest in peace Probation/Parole Officer McCoy.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

April 7, 2020

John 5:28, 29 - "Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out". I pray that everyone can find peace in knowing that we will see this officer as well as many others again in Paradise soon. Until then, please accept my condolences.

A.W. Montgomery
Concerned Citizen

September 17, 2018

Time may have passed but you are not forgotten. I believe as long as someone remembers you or speaks your name, you are still with us.
Thank you for your heroism.
God Bless

Detention Officer A.Zambito

May 18, 2015

Officer McCoy, Thank you for your service to the nation, state of Oklahoma, and community. You will always be remembered as a great public servant, father, husband, and law enforcement brother!! Rest well my friend in the arms of Jesus. Don't worry we got it from here!!!! God Bless You!!!!

Deon A. Clayton, Corr. Treat. Spec
Federal Bureau of Prison

November 3, 2014

I can not believe it's been two years... My heart still aches everyday without you. So many thing have changed and I want you here for them all. Your babies aren't babies anymore, but your son is so you. From the way he looks, all the way down to his side ways smile, to his amazing sense of humor. Your baby girl has learned to do her back walk over and is such a great little spirit. My beautiful sister in law is back in school. She is making you so proud. Her strength through this has been so amazing. She is helping other families now. Your big brother is giving back to the world by helping others as well. He is still our Bubba. Mom and Dad have started a golf tournament to remember you through scholarships for correctional families. I am in awe of all they do and do it so bravely. Meanwhile, your sister can't seem to find a day I don't shed at least one tear because I want YOU to be here and see all this. Bug and I went to the cemetary today and she "skyped you in heaven" a Happy Birthday. This was such a hard one for me. I just miss you much. Your legacy is still so strong through corrections. Anyone that knew you still will go on and on about what and amazing man you were. What a blessing you were to all. I try and tell myself, it was such a blessing to have you, if only for a short time. My mind will buy it but my heart wanted so much more. If I know you, you are looking down shaking your head at me, saying I at peace and wanting the same for us. And most days I can fake it... Today not at all! I love and miss you so much. Thank you for being my little brother. You are one of a kind!!! XOXO

Kelli - Blessed Big Sister

October 21, 2014

Jeff will forever live in the hearts of his family and all those who were blessed to know and love him. Shooting officer's has to stop. No one should go to work and have to worry, or have their wife, children, parents, grandparents, siblings, family, friends, and coworker's worry. Will they be going home tonight night. This officer down shooting didn't take Jeff alone. It forever took a piece of the hearts of so many people. Not to mention 2 beautiful small children who will grow up without their amazing father, and for what? God Bless Jeff McCoy and God Bless and be with him, his family, and all officer's that risk their lives every single day for you for me for our families.

Dolly Williams

October 21, 2014

To the family, friends and co-workers of Officer Mccoy, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Rest easy brother.

Dennis Holmes, Lieutenant
Federal Bureau of Prisons

May 18, 2014

Peace Officer McCoy will always be remembered. May God bless you and your family.


May 8, 2014

Rest in Peace Officer McCoy. May God bless you and your family. You will always be remembered.

Mark Kollmorgen PPOI
Oklahoma Department of Corrections-Probation and Parole

November 26, 2013

As we start a new year(2013), your service and sacrifice will always be remembered.
Rest in Peace my Brother.

To my active duty Brothers and Sisters, PLEASE STAY SAFE!

Master Senior Investigator Cardell L. Dobbins #188 (Ret.)
Illinois Secretary of State Department of Police District 01, Region 01

January 1, 2013

Thank you for your service and helping to make America a safer place.

Deputy Brian Jones
Boulder County Sheriff's Office, CO

November 3, 2012

Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God.

Tony Melton, Probation/ Parole Officer
Virginia Department of Corrections

October 25, 2012

Jeff and SGT McCoy, It was an Honor to serve with you in the Oklahoma National Guard. I found out today "20121022" of your death . I bugged you for weeks to join the Army after you got out of the Navy. I was your XO,your friend and co worker. I wont forget the first time we let you drive a Humvee at night.

LT Gates, Aaron
US Army

October 22, 2012

Officer McCoy - you can stand down now as we will forever have your watch. Now you can rest in peace my brother with our brother's & sister's that have also made the Supreme Sacrifice. May God Almighty bless your fellow brother's & sisters that will proudly carry on your fight. May God bless & keep your family. I can only say Thank You Sir.

Officer Roy L. Shriver
North Enid Police Department North Enid, Ok

October 22, 2012

Rest in peace. We'll take the watch from here.

San Francisco Sheriff's Department

October 20, 2012



September 24, 2012

May God Bless you and your family.

You are remembered. Thank you for your service.

Aaron Linn Probation Parole Officer III
West Virginia Division of Corrections Parole Services

September 16, 2012

I just learned of this terrible tragedy. I am so sorry for your family's loss and will keep them in my prayers.

Justice will be done--if not by man, then by God.

Chris Ayers
U.S. Customs & Border Protection Officer/Former Oklahoma PPO

September 13, 2012

Though I never knew him, he was part of my Law Enforcement family and I will mourn this deep loss the rest of my life. My heart aches with all the losses we have suffered, and continue to suffer, through the years. God is our only peace through such incidents. May family & friends feel the presence of the "God of All Comfort" as they endure the distressing days ahead. I join them in their agonizing grief & remember them in my prayers.

Another senseless tragedy
Another day of grief,
Another day of praying
To help us find relief.

Relief from bitter anguish
Relief from rage so great,
Relief from lenient justice
Which continues to seal our fate.

Relief from heartache’s torment
As we continue on,
Oh, the awesome loss of brotherhood
Now that you are gone.

Though our hearts are deeply broken
And our tears forever flow,
There’s a comforting assurance
That now with God you go.

We know that you are welcome
Now at Heaven’s gate,
While meeting brothers & sisters
Who also met such fate.

The family of Law Enforcement
Knows no distance here or there,
And we recall in comfort
You await us there.

Vicki Hare, Telecommunicator
Salisbury NC PD

July 17, 2012

Thoughts and prayers to the McCoy family. A sad and tragic loss. Thank you Officer McCoy for your years of service.

Ashley Armstrong - Probation Officer
Coles-Cumberland Court Services

July 13, 2012

Sympathy and prayers to the family and co-workers. Officer McCoy served and protected his community and what a tragic loss.

Alison Henry-Adult Probation
Coles/Cumberland Probation and Court Services

July 12, 2012

Whatever our duty, or wherever we serve, we are all brothers and sisters in this most honorable calling. We have lost yet another brother who we must never forget.

My deepest sympathy to both his family and his police family. My thoughts and prayers are with them. May he rest in eternal peace.

Sgt. Tom Waller, Ret., Cincinnati P.D.
Greater Cincinnati Police Museum

June 27, 2012

Rest in peace my Brother!
"Blessed are the Peacemakers; for they shall be called the children of God." Matthew 5:9

Jack Garcia, Retired FBI Agent

June 24, 2012

The National Police Wives Association would like to extend their heartfelt prayers to the family of Officer Jeffrey McCoy and the Oklahoma Department of Corrections during this time. Thank you, Officer McCoy, for your service.

National Police Wives Association

June 18, 2012

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