Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Happy Birthday Gary-love you always. So truly blessed to share your life

Carolyn
spouse

April 7, 2014

Rest in peace sir

Officer Shannon Yates
University of Southern Miss Police Department

December 25, 2013

Lt,
I make it a point to stop at your grave each time I come to Indy for an overnight. This month I have had the opportunity to stop more than normal. Seeing your grave immediately brings me back to Recruit School! I remember thinking that if I could just be like you during my career I would be satisfied. Well, I am now sure that I will never be able to measure up to the differences you have made on so many people, but I have obtained your rank of FSgt. It was at your grave that I made the decision to pursue this new position. I will never forget you; you made such a huge impact on my career in the short time that I was fortunate to know you. Please continue to watch over us and I give you my word I will continue to do everything I can to ensure you, all of our fallen brothers and the survivors are NEVER FORGOTTEN! “Stay alert/Stay alive!”

Indiana State Trooper

September 28, 2013

Time passes so quickly-so hard to believe yesterday marked 7 years since you died. As I read the many thoughts shared by those that knew & loved you, those who's career you impacted, and those Officers that only know you through other's memories; I am always amazed at how many lives you touched. You are missed by so many. I love you & miss you now as that day 7 yrs ago. Always in my heart-together forever

Carolyn
spouse

August 23, 2013

It has been 7 years from the darkest moments of our lives. The void and pain seemed so vast, and yet over time we have remembered, memorialized and continued your legacy of helping others. You showed us to do things that mattered to people and mattered to ourselves-and in turn, it has made some of us question whether we really matter. You have always been a compass to me and others, we see your face, hear your voice and feel your spirit. You will always be remembered in our minds and hearts. We miss you and treasure what you shared-the gift of yourself. We love you and mean it!!

Mark Hannan
Friend

August 23, 2013

To fully appreciate the heroes of the present, we must recognize our heroes of the past. Your heroism and service is honored today, the 7th anniversary year of your death. I am priviliged to leave a tribute to you. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer who was murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.

Time never diminishes respect. Your memory will always be honored and revered. Rest In Peace.

Phyllis Lasater Loya
mom of fallen Pittsburg (CA) officer Larry Lasater

April 11, 2013

So many thoughts going through my mind today, but mostly I'm just missing you. Happy Birthday Gary-I love you always and miss you with each breath.

Carolyn
spouse

April 7, 2013

Rest in Peace, Lieutenant Dudley. Your sacrifice is not forgotten.

Officer 11169

February 17, 2013

Thank you for your service and dedication Sir, RIP

James Kotke
Civilian / Former Officer
WSF Park Police (Wi.)

August 22, 2012

Gary-
6 years-it doesn't seem possible. Sometimes it seems like yesterday, and yet at the same time, it seems like forever. I miss you more than I could ever say. Together Forever-

Carolyn
spouse

August 22, 2012

One the nicest people that you will ever meet! Thank you for the guidance and training that you provided to me and many others. I also thank you for directing me to a great surgeon, and keeping me going throughout the ISP academy! May you rest in peace and God bless your survivors!

Special Agent
FBI (former ISP)

June 18, 2012

Happy Birthday Gary! Today I will eat a frozen Ding Dong with ice cream for you. Thank you for sharing your life with me. I miss you more than I can say & love you always.

Carolyn
spouse

April 7, 2012

2011 ICOPS Bike Ride Day 1 - Indianapolis to Richmond. Everyone made it safe. Excellent core group riding. You would be proud.

ICOPS
ICOPS Cyclists

July 25, 2011

Gary- Happy 20th Anniversary! I love you always & miss you with each breath.

Carolyn

Carolyn
spouse

June 1, 2011

Happy Birthday Gary!!

Connie Rich
Survivor

April 7, 2011

You were and are a compass in my life-you introduced me to the service of others. Compassionate, caring, funny and integrity were some of your most endearing qualities. I have been blessed with your influence in my life. I miss you.

Anonymous

March 8, 2011

Thinking of you and the appreciation of all your years of dedicated service. Thank you for watching over my brother and other law enforcement officers.

Anonymous

August 22, 2010

On the day before "Early Arrival" for National Police Week, many of us witnessed hundreds of riders who rode to the Pentagon to support C.O.P.S. and the ODMP. It was an inspiring site: hundreds of riders, their families, support drivers who came out in solidarity for these two great organizations who do so much for survivors. It was deja vu for some of us...and to just look around and see what has happened was surreal. We miss you.

Mark Hannan
co-worker

May 12, 2010

Gary ~

We are thinking of you today and always... May you continue to watch over my brother and all other police officers.

Amy
sister of a police officer

August 22, 2009

To Lt. Gary Edward Dudley, his family and his fellow officers with the Indiana State Police:

Our heartfelt thoughts are with you on the anniversary of Lt. Dudley’s tragic death and we honor him for his valor and sacrifice to the community. Rest in Peace, Lt. Dudley and thank you for your service.

Wives Behind The Badge, Inc
Members and Staff

August 22, 2009

It has been a long time since I wrote, but there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you. The ride in Illinois this year was brought to an even higher level, with new survivors joining and inspiring us. You have touched so many lives through the rides in Indiana and Illinois...we miss you and keep an eye on us!!

Mark Hannan
Concerns of Police Survivors-Illinois

July 29, 2009

Last Monday, July 20, 2009, the 2009 Indiana Cops Cycling for COPS ride began. We all know that you are riding with us during the ride and you are never forgotten.

Anonymous

July 26, 2009

Lt. Dudley I think of you often. You were a tremendous role model for my while I was a Basic Course Student in 1999. Later, you would truely epotimize what the Indiana State Police was all about when I became a cadet under your training and guidance. I will never forget you or what you instilled in me.

Anonymous

April 18, 2009

RIP.You will never be forgotten.

Anonymous

October 25, 2008

Hey Gary:

We still miss you greatly. My children often ask about you. I tell them that you are watching over all of us. You were a brother to me in the short time that I knew you. I am trying to write a book about you so that our state will get to know you. Know that both you and Gary Martin are in my thoughts daily. You and Gary Martin will continue to keep me focused on what is important in life. Know also that your spirit keeps me focused as a Police Officer. I shall not let you down.

Patrick J. Holdeman
Notre Dame Police Dept

September 4, 2008