Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

On my regular jogging route, I run by the street in Franklin that is named after you. I never met you, the the MSP officers I know tell me you were an honorable man.

To the family of Trooper Barry:

"I pray that the Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of freedom."
~ Abraham Lincoln

Lt. Peter Salzberg
Walpole Police Department

November 16, 2008

Dear Daddy:
God took the strength of a mountain
The magesty of a summer sun
The calm o a quiet sea
The generous soul of nature
The conforting arm of night
The wisdom of the ages
The power of the eagles flight
Then God combined these qualities
When there was nothing to add
He knew his masterpiece was complete
And so he called it Dad

We love you with all our hearts forever
N E A C M J E.

You know brother:I noticed something very nice in your
grave.Every week Your family bring fresh and beautiful
flowers
to prove treir love for you.We are visiting your grave
every week too.
How much trey love you?How much...

God bless you.

Antonio.

Antonio DeBem - Clerk
Your brother from St.Mark's

October 29, 2008

Your memory continues to live on and not a day passes in which you are forgotten. I remember working the mid-shift that early June morning and think of your family daily. May God continue to watch over them.

Tpr
Troop H

Tpr
MSP

October 17, 2008

TPR.P.F.BARRY MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.YOUR SERVICE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN BY THE FEW AND THE PROUD!
MAY YOU'RE FAMILY CARRY ON WITHOUT YOU IN PEACE AND JOY AND PROSPERITY,KNOWING YOU MADE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE ONLY BRAVE MEN MAKE.GOD BLESS YOU AND ESPECIALLY YOU'RE FAMILY!

F-TROOPER
MSP

October 5, 2008

RIP

Anonymous

September 8, 2008

HOO-RAHH Carry on Trooper; God Bless You . My respects to Your Family.

Timothy A. Topulos
Massachusetts State Police

September 8, 2008

THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TODAY

GENE & ALLYSON CHEMELOWSKI

September 6, 2008

Fill not your hearts wirh pain
and sorrow,but remember me
in every tomorrow.Remember the
joy,the laughter,the smiles.I've
only gone to rest for a while.
Although my leaving causes pain
and grief,my going has eased my
hurt and given me relief.So dry
your eyes and remember me,not as
I am but as I used to be.Because,
I will remember you all and look
on with a smile.Understand in
your hearts,I've onle gone to
rest a while.As long as I have
the love of you,I can live my
life in the hearts of all of you.

Happy birthday to you brother Barry.
We still remember you every day specially your family.

Antonio.

Antonio DeBem - Clerk
Your brother from St.Mark's

August 27, 2008

Hi daddy - its your birthday and we wish it was the lobster partys you had when you and mommy did them for both your birthdays.that was so fun n we told James and Elizabeth and Michaela all about them. we love you and we miss you so much. School started today, and we will do the best, for you and mama. I wish you were here with us Daddy we all do, and we tell the little kids all about you evry day. Happy Birthday Daddy and we all love you forever, love from Emily, NIck, Colin,Ali, Michaela, James n Elizabeth and from Mommy too we love you for always and for keeps

emily Ali Nick Colin n the kids
kids

August 26, 2008

Today marks the third birthday we've had without you here with us Paul, and the children and I miss you more than I can ever put into words. The kids started school today, and James had kindergarten orientation. He's so you Paul;it amazes and comforts me, that you are here, in all our beautiful children. The passage of time that I mark through them takes my breath away. They are wonderful people Paul, and I know you are so proud of them. They're everything we ever wanted,more than we ever dreamed of,and all the good of me and you is in the children we were so blessed to create. Stay near us all Paul,and watch over the family and friends who miss you so deeply and love you so much. Help me in all the ways that you can , to stay the course and see us through like I promised you. I love you Paul, with all my heart. Forever, for always, and no matter what. 2-4 Maryellen

Maryellen Barry
wife

August 26, 2008

Remembering how much you loved to celebrate your birthday!

Anonymous

August 26, 2008

Happy Birthday,Bub
You are missed every day. Life is just never going to be the same without you, no matter how we try there is such a void in all that we do. We love you.
Mum Dad Edward and Mary.

Eleanor Barry
Mother

August 25, 2008

Father's Day Blessing from Saint Mark's Parish:
Dear God,when I am called father,
it makes me uneasy!
Being a parent is like being a God.
A"god"to my children who constantly
need me to provide food,shelter and clothing,
education and health care,and a home where
love is the growing force.
Being a parent helps me realize how much
I depend on you:
how much I am your child.
Let my children teach me how to be
dependent on You,my Father,
and grant me the strength to witness
to my children that love that you have
for them as well as for me.
Bless my endeavors to never lose sight
of your blessings and your call to
be an example of love and goodness to my children.
I ask all of this in your name! AMEN

We love you Brother Barry.Happy Father's Day.

Clerk -Antonio Debem
Brother

July 8, 2008

A day never passes that Paul, his courageous wife and beautiful children don't cross my mind, thoughts and prayers. If I can help, please know I am just a phone call or email away 24/7!

Sean
Cousin

June 19, 2008

Dear Maryellen and Children
You and Paul are in our prayers every day. After reading the reflections on this page, it is clear to see that Paul can be very proud of his dear Maryellen and the job she is doing with their wonderful 7 children. I know he is with them and guides them every day. Paul was MaryE's soul mate and is her spirit mate.
Emily, your words are beautiful and you are a fine representative of your sisters and brothers. Dad is proud of all of you.
Be well and be sure that someday you will be held in Paul's embrace again.
Love,
Auntie Karen (and Bill)

Karen and Bill Carruth
MaryEllens Aunt and Uncle

June 18, 2008

Hi Daddy We want to tell you Happy Father's Day and we love you so much. Mommy said we can write on here any time so I am going to for us kids sometimes. I miss you Daddy. So does mommy and the kids. I wish you could be here with us again beacause that was the best. We had the greatest life and family Daddy. Thank you for being the best father anyone ever had and we will see you again Mom says for sure. We saw a lot of your friends today that help us all the time like Sean and Hiedi.They brought their baby girls and I wish you were here to play with them and help out with them.All us kids helped. Goodnight Daddy . I hope you know it was Fathers day and that we all love you for ever. Love from Emily and Ali, Colin, Nick, Michaela,James and Elizabeth

Emily and the kids
daughter

June 15, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with Paul's family today on this anniversary. Maryellen, not a day has passed these two years that we have not prayed for you and the children.
Love,
Beth and Rob Bullock

Beth McCabe Bullock

June 15, 2008

It's so difficult Paul, to believe that tomorrow we arrive at your two year anniversary. In my mind, it was a moment ago, our last day together as our beautiful family of nine. Nothing is perfect I know, but that day was just so good- the dinner we all had together, swimming in the pool even in the rain, and me trying my hardest to get you to call off what would prove to be your last detail. You being you, you wanted to save your time off for the perfect weather days, and went to work - taking such care of me and the children, as always. Our beautiful children are growing by leaps and bounds, and truly sustain me. I find such comfort in their sky blue eyes, amazing smiles, and their laughs that are so like yours, that they make me want to laugh too! Every day I see all the goodness of you developing in them - their great love of life, and their kindness and compassion towards everyone, that is so like yours. I know for sure they will grow up to be wonderful people Paul, and will be your legacy, and such a tribute to your life, so well lived. I am so grateful always, Paul, to have ever had a moment with you. We were so richly blessed, and you and the children are the best thing that ever happened to me. I will never know why I was so fortunate to have been given so much in my time here. I promise you always to continue to honor you in every way possible, and to see our family through. I hope you rest easy,my beautiful husband, knowing I have your watch forever, until we meet again. Stay with us Paul, and give us your love, strength, and support. Watch over us, and all of our family and friends, that help me and the children so much, to get through each day.I love you Paul, with all my heart, forever, for always and no matter what. 9-4, with all my love, Maryellen

Maryellen Barry
wife

June 14, 2008

Son, Brother, Husband and Father

One by one we will come and embrace again.
Until then, in every way and every day.
We will love you always.

You are missed every day of our lives, Paul.
It just doesn't get any easier without you with us.
Tomorrow is Father's Day and the second anniversary.
When you left you took a piece of Dad Edward Mary and I with you...
May you rest in peace Bub.

Love you Mum

Eleanor Barry
Mother

June 14, 2008

Today is May 13th, and it was 2 years ago today the last time I got to see you and hear your amazing laugh. I think of you every day and each day I hope it gets better but it hasnt. I dont think we will ever stoping missing you. I love you and would give anything to hear you laugh.

Mary
Sister

May 13, 2008

I wanna thank you brother because,after my Beautiful Mother passed way in Brazil 3 weeks ago I found your grave at Cedar Grove.We took that beautiful train to Ashmont and then we took that nice Trolley to Cedar Grove.
Your grave is close to de water like de city where you were born and like the 3 State Police Units we know.The water is a blessed power from God that holds the planet and every time we are with mr.Ocean I fill close to God.
Is been very hard for me to forget my Mother but thanks to people like you and my family from Brazil and from our Church I've been very hopefull about life.
I like to wish a very happy Mothers day to your beautiful mother and wife.
Thank you for been with me avery second on this beautiful city called Boston.Thank you for been my Brother....
I still praing for you,for your family and for the State police.
Antonio.

Clerk -Antonio Debem
Your brother from St.Mark's

May 8, 2008

Thankyou for your service and sacrifice. GOD bless your family, you will not be forgotten

POLICE OFFICER
PHILA PA

March 29, 2008

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE, REST IN PEACE.

N.J. TROOPER
NEW JERSEY STATE POLICE

February 25, 2008

Maryellen
As Police week approaches I wanted to let you know that you and your family are still in my thoughts and prayers. I will never forget you and the children. You are such a strong lady and hope you continue to stay strong as you approach 2 years. I seem to have lost your e-mail address and hope you still have mine. I will continue to pray for you and your family and still visit our hero's site.

Mark Fedder
Indiana State FOP / Mishawaka Police Dept.

February 18, 2008

"The Badge"

He starts his shift each day
To respond to calls unknown.
He drives a marked patrol car.
A police officer he is known.

He's paid by the citizens' taxes
To make it safe on the streets.
But he usually has a second job
'Cause a waitress has his salary beat.

Now he doesn't know a holiday
'Cause he works all year round.
And when Thanksgiving and Christmas finally arrive
At his home he cannot be found.

He's cursed and assaulted often,
The one whos blood runs blue.
He seldom ever gets a thanks,
To some he's just a fool.

His friends are always other cops
'Cause people just don't understand
That underneath his badge and gun,
He's just another man.

He knows there might not be a tomorrow
In this world of drugs and crime.
And he gets so mad at the court system
'Cause the crooks don't get any time.

And each day when he leaves for work,
He prays to God above.
Please bring me home after my shift
So I can see the ones I love.

But tonight he stops a speeding car,
He's alone down this ole' highway.
It's just a little traffic infraction.
He does it everyday.

Well, he walks up to the driver's window,
And his badge is shining bright.
He asked the guy for a driver's license,
When a shot rang through the night.

Yes, the bullet hit its mark,
Striking the officer in the chest.
But the Department's budget didn't buy
Each officer a bullet-proof vest.

So he lay on the ground bleeding.
His blood wasn't blue - His blood was red.
And briefly he thought of his loved ones
'Cause in a moment the officer was dead.

In the news they told the story
Of how this officer had died.
And some who listened cared less,
But those who loved him cried.

Well, they buried him in uniform
With his badge pinned on his chest.
He even had his revolver,
He died doing his best.

Written By:
David L. Bell
Sergeant
Richland County Sheriff's Department
Columbia, South Carolina
Used with Special Permission of the Author
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Investigator David L Bell
Richland County Sheriff's Dept., Columbia, SC

February 18, 2008