Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

"Thought of you with love today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too.
I think of you in silence, I often speak your name.
All I have are memories and a picture in a frame.
Your memory is a keepsake, with which I'll never part.
God has you in his keeping, I have you in my hear..."
Wish you were here.
XOXOX

D, J, L & A Bonczek
inlaws

March 8, 2010

It was a perfect spring day just like this one, sunshine and flowers beginning to bloom, but it turned into the absolute darkest, worst day of my life. Nothing has been the same since March 8, 2006.

Matthew:

I miss you with an unending pain in my heart that just will never ever go away. People wish me to have some peace but it is not to be found.

I read some of your writings last night:

“We all strive to leave this type of deep impression to be remembered by others during our days, or after our days are over. But our days are numbered, so we have to squeeze all we can out of each of them, living them to their fullest, cheating ourselves out of nothing. Each day must be valued and savored as if it were the last, no time can be wasted.” MJM

You did exactly that and I am thankful.

I love you with all of my forever broken heart,

Mom XOXOXO

Uncle Ralph and I came to be with you today. Did you see us? Again, I thought I heard some Angels singing somewhere near.

Jane Melchionda
Matthew's Mom

March 8, 2010

Thinking of you and all of your loved ones today. Continue to keep watch over all of them as I know they think of you every day. You are a true hero and heroes never die. You have not been forgotten.

Bob Gordon
Father of Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/94

March 8, 2010

Lynn-thinking of you today and remembering what a wonderful person Matt was to everyone that knew him.

Love,
Michele & Steve

Anonymous

March 8, 2010

Whats up brother. Can't believe four years has passed. Stopped yesterday to leave a momento at 60w L25. Traced your name on a piece of paper. Is it weird it still brings a tear to my eye? You are truly missed my friend. So much has happened in the last 4 years. I know that you are watching and protecting from where ever you are. Rest in peace brother..

Louis
Friend

March 8, 2010

Another year has passed and you are still admired and respectfully remembered in the hearts and minds of so many. My thoughts and prayers are with your loved ones and friends on this anniversary of your EOW. You will never be forgotten.

James Sheppard
Father of Sgt. Jason L. Sheppard EOW 12/7/06

March 8, 2010

Matt,

It's been 4 long years. It doesn't get any easier, I've just learned to cope. Thank you for all of the memories I carry with me. You will always make me smile :)

Your family is in my prayers.

Officer Jeanne-Marie Mocarski
BHPD

March 8, 2010

Can't believe it has been four years. Seems like yesterday we were all on the Bermuda cruise. Going to Church this morning and will be saying an extra prayer for you as always.

Spo
BBPD

March 7, 2010

Officer Melchionda will always be near and dear to my heart. Words can NEVER EVER express my gratitude when Officer Melchionda recovered my stolen money...February/2006. It was soooo nice to have met such a nice, handsome and professional person who truly was a dedicated Police Officer. It's just hard to explain, but he will always be my ANGEL.

Peace and Blessings to the Melchionda Family.

Sincerely,
Brenda, Quinton, Kia, Darnell and Muffin(woof woof)Rawles!

Brenda Rawles
Friend

March 4, 2010

I was searching around the internet for old friends. When I saw your name, Matt, I could never have imagined what I would be reading.

You were one of the first people I met at college and our friendship for those years meant a lot to me. I knew how important it was for you to become a police officer and while I never had the chance to tell you, I was so happy when I learned you had finally achieved your goal.

My most vivid memory of you was in the basement of your house, signing with your friends to Black by Pearl Jam; I was watching and thinking how amazing it was to be surrounded by good friends and to be able to enjoy life to the extent you did. I could only hope I would experience the same.

My thoughts and prayers to your family and friends.

Janna Chernetz
college friend

February 28, 2010

You will always be MY valentine!

I love you!

Mom

Jane Melchionda
Matt's Mom

February 14, 2010

Matthew:

If you don't already know, Ken and Kelly had a beautiful baby girl, Madelyn. Please watch over her.

Dave's birthday today. We miss you terribly. XOXOXOX

I know you are looking down from heaven. One day we will all be together again.

Sending all my love,

Mom

Jane Melchionda
Mother of Fallen Officer Matthew Melchionda

January 16, 2010

You will never be forgotten. I lived not too far away from that horrible incident that day. I heard the news and couldn't belive it. The only thing that i could do is pray. I will always remember to keep you in my prays brother. God bless you and all of your loved ones.

Anonymous

January 3, 2010

"I was lucky enough to meet Matt only a handful of times and in that short amount of time, found him to be one of the funniest and most fun persons to be around I have ever met! His loss hit me like someone I was friends with for years. He is missed. But if anyone ever symbolized enjoying life it was him! No better way to honor him than getting the most out of every day! " H.J.

Matt:
Recently, someone you knew wrote the above message. He didn't realize the impace it would have upon me. He captured the true spirit of Matt!!! Every day IS a gift! You had so many friends and with them embraced life....I just wish with all my heart that you had more of that precious commodity, time. We all would have benefitted richly. Thank you H.J.

With my love,

Mom

Jane Melchionda
Matthew's Mom

December 27, 2009

Matt,
Ken and I were remembering the time you played Santa Claus. You were so good that we did not know right away that it was you. We all do wish you were still here with us. We think of you all the time. Michael tells all of his friends about you and what a fun Uncle you were. I know that you are watching over all of us.

Elise Galanaugh
Sister-in-law

December 26, 2009

Matthew:

Could not let Christmas go by with a visit to be with you. Uncle Ralph and I plowed through the snow to be with you and brought a Christmas tree with lights. I am sure that I heard the angels singing.

I love you,

Mommy

Anonymous

December 25, 2009

Dear Matt,
I am thinking about you today and remembering how you embraced Christmas!!! The sound of your hearty laugh still lingers in my mind. Please don't let that memory fade! Johnny and I tell funny stories about you constantly...we only wish you were here to laugh with us and share a glass of wine! We all miss you dearly! Merry Christmas to one fine gentleman.
XOXOXOXO

Denise Bonczek
sister-in-law

December 24, 2009

My Beloved Matthew:

It is very difficult for me to grasp that this is the fourth Christmas we are spending without you. It just doesn’t seem possible. I still want to shop for presents for you and make your favorite meals. I remember how much you loved Christmas Eve and all the different fish. I am thinking of all these things as I try to go on without you. I miss your hugs and smile, your laugh and the sound of your voice. I miss you in the way only a mother who has lost a child can know. I still ask the question, “Why?” but there is never any answer. Your brother, your dad and I miss you and love you more than words can say. We have nearly thirty-two years of memories which must keep us going. Memories of decorating the tree, building snowmen, excited Christmas mornings, opening gifts, visiting with family, and so much more.

You are in my thoughts every second of every minute of every day. My heart is forever broken.

With love beyond words,

Mom
XOXOXOXO

If tears could build a stairway
and memories a lane,
I would walk right up to heaven
and bring you back again.

Jane Melchionda
Mother of Fallen Officer Matthew Melchionda

December 21, 2009

The soul would have no rainbow had the eye no tear.

Anonymous

December 11, 2009

Matt,
Well, everyone is rushing around getting ready for Christmas...shopping, decorating, party hopping, etc. I just wanted to let you know that while it is all too easy to get caught up in all the hoopla, not a day goes by that I don't think of you. L asks about you a lot and I continue to tell her what a witty, humorous, and handsome man you were. I miss you, Matt!!! Merry Christmas!!
XOXOX to heaven
Love,
Denise

Denise Bonczek

December 5, 2009

Officer Melchionda...I will always remember your ultimate sacrifice. It was an honor to ride for you in the 2006 Cross Country Police Unity Tour. Rest in peace.

Ptl. Robert Stober
Branchburg Police Dept (NJ)

December 1, 2009

Matthew:

Missing you on yet another Thanksgiving. We celebrate with heavy hearts remembering how much you enjoyed the turkey and all the trimmings. Even when you needed to leave to work nights, you always came for turkey. I would give anything to have you back. We all love you and will never ever forget you.

Always with my love,

Mom
XOXOXOXOXOXO

Jane Melchionda
Matthew's Mom

November 25, 2009

Matthew:

I miss you so. More than words can say.

With all my love,

Mom

Jane Melchionda
Mother of Fallen Officer Matthew Melchionda

November 9, 2009

This is my third birthday without you. It just doesn't seem right. You should be here and I there. I miss you my son. I don't have a lesson plan for this. Just wingng it. I miss the funny cards you always sent and the ever-present "quotes from Matt". What am I to do?

XXXXXOOOOO
MOM

Jane Melchionda
Mother of Fallen Officer Matthew Melchionda

September 30, 2009

Matt,

We lost another Brother tonight. Getting my dress uniform together for another good bye hurts so much. I know you will welcome him.
You are never forgotten, Matt. I just joked the other day about trying to find the words for a report. It's not the same without my dictionary man!

Officer Jeanne-Marie Mocarski
BHPD

September 12, 2009