Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Police Officer Stanley Cornell Reaves

Norfolk Police Department, Virginia

End of Watch Friday, October 28, 2005

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Reflections for Police Officer Stanley Cornell Reaves

Treava and family...I was thinking today about saturday...I will be celebrating my birthday...then I thought about you... and Stanley...I know what you are feeling today,tomorrow, saturday, sunday and all the days yet to come....I just want you to know that I think about you and your family often...I will be thinking of you on saturday...I am sure you will have a rollercoaster of emotions.. I hope you will be with the people who make you feel the best... that's what I did...we had a celebrate Drew...all of his guys/girls from the street....all of his friends from the new family...we laughed.. we drank.. we cried.. we laughed.. it felt really good....I know you miss him more than words can say....I hope your children are doing's amazing to me how resiliant they are....sometimes they hold me up..I don't think I could have made it through this without them....hope to see you in DC again next May...much love, Chrissy Henley

October 26, 2006

To Treva,
Although I grieve w/ you over your tragic loss, I also sense that The Lord has you and yours in the very palm of His hand. May He bless and keep you, and may His face continually shine upon you until you are reunited w/ your beloved again.--JOANIE

Mother, daughter, sister, and granddau. of LEO's

October 18, 2006

Just wanted to leave a note that I was thinking of the Reaves family. I pray you all are doing well.

Disp. C Gardner
Suffolk, VA PD

September 4, 2006

We are still thinking about you brother! We want you to know that your still not, and never will be forgotten!

August 25, 2006

Today would have been our 8th anniversary. My love for you is just as strong now as it was then. Thank you for all of those wonderful years. To me, you will always be the best husband in the world.
Always my Love

Treva Reaves

July 25, 2006

You will always be remembered! Thanks for your service.

July 24, 2006

He was a fine police officer and will surely be missed by all who knew him.

July 7, 2006


-Words from a fallen Chesapeake Virginia firefighter paramedic killed in the line of duty. L.O.D.D. 03/18/96:FIREFIGHTER SPECIALIST FRANK E. YOUNG AND JOHN R. HUDGINS JR.-GONE ALSO, BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN...


May 23, 2006

Days, weeks, months have passed and not a day goes by without remebering what we lost. You are missed by so many. Your tour here was ended so you can begin watch in a much better place. Know that you family thinks about you misses you everyday. The NPD family still mourns for you and as you know we just lost another. Too many and far too soon. My prayers still goes out to your wife and children as they always will. I will see you again Brother, until then..........Look over us all.....

Detective K.A.Purnell
Norfolk Police Department

May 22, 2006

Treva: Please know that you and your family are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Stan is and always will be missed.

Tess Roney
Baltimore City Police Dept. *99 Southern District

May 22, 2006 heart aches for your sadness...I will forever remember your Stanley, he passed on my birthday...It has been 14 months since we lost our Drew...I want you to know that is does get easier...maybe not better, but easier...the tears will flow less often, although the simpliest things can make you loose it...the one year anniversary of Drew's death brought a new feeling...I know he will always be with us, just not here to see, touch or hear...and Stanley will always be with you as well...I look forward to seeing you this week as we prepare to honor our husbands and all the other's who loved their job, loved their family and moved on to another place....We will never forget them...never...much love, Chrissy Henley

Chrissy Henley, surviving spouse
Officer William "Drew" Henley, EOW 3/19/05

May 8, 2006

Stanley, My heart continues to ache for you and I know it always will. Not a moment goes by that I'm not thinking of you or reminded of you. Reagan talks about how much she misses you and wishes you were still here. Ryan cries for you too. We all do. I miss spending time with you and you making me laugh. Watching David Chapelle is not the same without you being here to imitate him. Everyday I wish I could hold you in my arms again and tell you how much I love you. You will always be the love of my life. I will forever cherish our short time together and I thank God for it. I thank God for blessing us with 2 wonderful children that are like you in so many ways. I wish you could be here to see how Ryan is growing. I know he misses you being with him at the barber shop. He loves to watch the fast cars and motorcycles. I wonder where he got that from. He also has your love for music. Reagan is learning to play the piano now and she is singing in the choir. I know you would be so proud of them. We weren't ready for you to leave us yet, not that we would have ever been. I know you are watching over us and still protecting us in your own way. I'm trying to keep the lawn green for you and I listen to your cds sometimes just for you. I miss you so much that it hurts. I know we will see you again one day in Heaven. I can't wait. I pray at night that I will dream about you just feel like I am with you again. It's not the same but it is the best I can get right now. The bad part is waking up and realizing that you are not by my side. Know that you are truly loved and missed. Hugs and kisses. Always in my heart, Love always, Treva

Treva Reaves

May 2, 2006

To the family Treva,Reagan and Ryan, I will keep you in my prayers. I miss stanley also, he always had a smile on his face every time I would see him. May God comfort you as no one else can.

James Powell

Cpl. James C. Powell
Norfolk Police Dept.

April 9, 2006

Officer Reaves, I never knew you but my mother spoke very highly of you. She called you a gentle giant. You are missed. Thank you for your dedication to Law Enforcement. I am truly sorry and I pray for you and your family.

9-1-1 Communications

March 26, 2006

Each time we lose another hero, my heart lost your beloved Stanley on my birthday, so to me he is extra special...I just wanted you to know that I think about you often...and each day I pray that we will not have another family facing what we have had to face...I hope to meet you in May...stay strong...keep holding on to one another....

Much love and prayers,
Chrissy Henley

Chrissy Henley, wife
Ptlm Drew Henley, Suffolk PD EOW 3/19/05

February 28, 2006

Original Scottish Version
Lay me doon in the caul caul groon
Whaur afore monie mair huv gaun
Lay me doon in the caul caul groon
Whaur afore monie mair huv gaun

When they come a wull staun ma groon
Staun ma groon al nae be afraid

Thoughts awe hame tak awa ma fear
Sweat an bluid hide ma veil awe tears

Ains a year say a prayer faur me
Close yir een an remember me

Nair mair shall a see the sun
For a fell tae a criminals gun

Lay me doon in the caul caul groon
Whaur afore monie mair huv gaun

Lay me doon in the caul caul groon
Whaur afore monie mair huv gaun

Whaur afore monie mair huv gaun

English Translation
Lay me down in the cold cold ground
Where before many more have gone
Lay me down in the cold cold ground
Where before many more have gone

When they come I will stand my ground
Stand my ground I’ll not be afraid

Thoughts of home take away my fear
Sweat and blood hide my veil of tears

Once a year say a prayer for me
Close your eyes and remember me

Never more shall I see the sun
For I fell to a criminals gun

Lay me down in the cold cold ground
Where before many more have gone
Lay me down in the cold cold ground
Where before many more have gone

Where before many more have gone

Norfolk Police Department

February 16, 2006



December 22, 2005

"His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord." Matthew 25:21

Deputy M. Clifton
Chesapeake Sheriff's Office

December 6, 2005

I only knew you for a short time, but I must say it was fun relieving each other during shift change. You will always be remembered for your bravery. God bless your family.

Investigator S. Williams
Norfolk Police Dept.

December 3, 2005



December 2, 2005

You are in my prayers.

Ofc. S.L. Coffman #15174
California Highway Patrol

November 29, 2005

We are so sorry to here about your tragic loss of a loved one in law enforcement. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in support. As we personally know, sometimes there is little comfort that comes from words. Keep focused as you can on the memories and joyous times for these things may bring you comfort. Rely heavily on family, friends, and other law enforcement. Honor your fallen loved one, for their sacrifice will not be forgotten.

Alissa Scott & Lisa Schultz, Co-Founders of Survivor Help Network

November 28, 2005

One day we are having dinner with our brothers and then 3 days later, you are gone. I am soRry I was not there the day the Lord took you from us. I will see you one day. Drive on brother...R.I.P.

Inv. T. Glaser
Norfolk Police Dept

November 25, 2005

While I am still feeling the pain of losing one of ours I join you in your grief. I include you in my prayers now and know that Sgt. Dragus welcomes you into heaven.

Blessed Be The Peacemakers

MSGT. Paula Howard

November 23, 2005

Another HERO killed by a coward. I'm so sorry for the loss of your Officer Stanley. Keep your eyes on our Lord, he will give you peace.


November 20, 2005

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