Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Deputy Sheriff Daniel Jess Lobo, Jr.

San Bernardino County Sheriff's Department, California

End of Watch Tuesday, October 11, 2005

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Reflections for Deputy Sheriff Daniel Jess Lobo, Jr.

Oh Danny, I am just sick to my stomach ... it has almost been a year. Every day since October 11th, 2005 has been sad, but tomorrow will be especially difficult for a lot of us. My love, support and prayers go out to your wife Jen, your 3 beautiful girls: Maddison, Kiley, and Kadie and your family and friends. Please know we love you and miss you. We are all going to get together in your memory ... the good ol' gang ... to cherish our precious memories of you.
Thinking of you and all those left behind.
We'll be sure to listen to "Beer for my Horses."

CW
SBSD wife

October 11, 2006

Dear Danny
This has been such a hard year, for all of us. I look at Melanie and the girls and I see such pain in their eyes. I wish I could make it easier on them but I haven't any answers, all I can do is hold them and wipe the tears. I hurt so much for your folks, Erik and your family. My prayer is that all who love you and miss you so much will help comfort each other. I think of you daily and have wonderful memories of you. Please watch over Melanie and the girls, they love you and miss you so much. I thank you again Danny for the beautiful girls you gave us.
Until we meet again
Grandma Ellen

October 10, 2006

Dad,
Tommarow will be a year, and its gonna be one of the hardest days of my life. Looking at your picture right now makes me want to laugh and cry at the same time. I want to laugh because I know your in heaven partying it up, and of your personality, but then i want to cry because you're gone and no one can bring you back. Mom says I look like you and Erik and she said that im getting taller and ill probley be taller than Kiley but you know what, I think shes just saying that to get my hopes up because as you know im am SHORT! Oh yea and now im getting fat, I DONT FIT IN MY PANTS! A few days ago one of my friends asked me if my dad was a cop (because i have a picture of you on my thingy) and i said yea he was a deputy for San Bernandino County but(theres always that "but" that ruins the whole story) he died on October 11 2005. When i said that my dad was a cop i broke down ("WAS" i HATE that word) now i cant say oh yea my dads a cop i say my dad was a cop but but buttt im not gonna make myself cry i now can say," My dad "was" a cop but is now a "hero"."
Hero.
Thats what you are to me, Kiley, and everyone.
Dad we miss you and love you so much.
HAVE A GREAT TIME IN HEAVEN DADDY!!!!

Kadie Lobo

October 10, 2006

Hey man,

This has probably been the fastest year ever for all of us. Everyone thinks about you everyday and misses you a lot. Can u believe how big maddi is getting, she's talking all the time even though sometimes she is the only one that understands the words coming outta her mouth. John Deere is the word she says the best, wonder where she learned that one?? I'm planning on going to the scene Tues night with a cooler of coors light and hanging out for the day. the whole clan is probably gonna show up later then all go out to dinner. This really sucks cause i always wanted to share some war stories over some beers with you once i had them. It's ok though, i know you already know them all since you're watchin over us all. Anyway, take care of us all brother, we miss and love you!!

See you soon

Bryan
SBSD

October 7, 2006

Heyy Daddyy,
I cant belive its gonna be a year.WOW!
Okay im starting to cry, ill stop.
i want yahh to know that i love you!
COME TO HAWII WITH US!
okay byeeeeee
i love and miss yah daddy =]
oh yea and remember when i would say,"dad" and you'd say"daughter" and we'd do that back in fourth
good times good times =]
haha ighht byeeee =]

YOUR DAUGHTER

October 7, 2006

I know how much you loved (love) your Mom and Dad, you were (are) a great son. Danny they are trying to be so strong, but inside they are broken in a million pieces. It's heartbreaking to see your Dad so sad. Thank Goodness that they have their faith in GOD, it's the only way any of us can make it through the days. I pray that Kiley will stop being angry at GOD for taking you. She asked you not to ride the motors and when you did she prayed that you would be safe and well you weren't and for that she has a broken and angry heart. Kadie is suddenly the grown up girl and is absolutly beautiful, she looks just like you and Erik. I think she's going to be tall and thin just like her Uncle Erik. She saw Maddison and was so happy to do so, she really loves and misses her baby sister. In a few days it will be a year since you left and not one day has been easy for anyone. You are so much a part of our everyday lives Daniel, we talk about you often as if you never left. It's just easier to think of Daddy as if he were just on a long vacation or something. I know you're probably thinking that I'm rambeling on...you know adult ADD-Ha!Ha! We just miss you so much Daniel and I'm just so scared to raise the girls alone, it's hard. You were always the rock, the calm one, the mediator between me and Kadie...I know she's got my attitude, you told me that the day you left. A year ago today was the last day we saw you at Kadie's soccer game. You took Kiley to Starbucks to get us coffee and you were the best Daddy when Kadie got hurt. I cherish that day and the memories of taking care of our Kadie together, watching you and Kiley tease each other, and watching Kadie chase after you for a kiss with all the frosting on her face. When we got in my bug and you got in your truck you went the wrong way...we went right and you went left and we watched you drive away in a slow motion kind of way. That day and those memories will always be locked in Kiley, Kadie, and My heart forever. I pray that we can all get through the next days because I know it's going to be so hard for everyone, it already is. Watch over your babies and please please please keep them safe Daniel.

October 7, 2006

Danny,
I cant believe it has almost been a year now since you passed. I have been on this site many of times reading everyone's reflections to you. It is obvious that everyone loves and misses you very much.
I have thought about writting numberous times and never have. I want you to know that Brad and I miss you very much. Even though he would probably never get on here and tell you (macho guy thing :@).
There are so many things that we do that we wish you and Jen could have been a part of with all of us.
Brad wears you memory band everyday. I know he misses you. Things changed with him after your accident. I think he looks at thing differently now. You would be very proud of him and the other motor guys.
Reading the reflections from the girls just reminds me of how special that "father daughter" bond is. They are precious girls and so strong.
Well I will let you go. Just wanted to let you know how very much we miss you!
Please also let Jen and little Madison know how much we care about them, and are always here if they need us.

Keep an eye on all the motor guys and keep them safe please. :@)

We miss you,
Kristin
11x16's wife

October 7, 2006

Hi Dad,
Guess what! We're leaving for Hawaii in about 14 days. Mom told us it would be good to get out of town during that time. We will be leaving the 11th and coming back the 16. School started recently and my classes are alright and pretty easy. I'll be driving next month and I am so excited. Dad, I think Kadie misses you a lot, actually I know she misses you. Yesterday she wore the shirt with your name on it to school. It was huge on her haha. Kadie is so pretty now and she looks like your side of the family so much. I've decided to start soccer again. I'm signing up next season for Diamond Bar. I really wish you were here dad, there is so much I want to share with you. Duke is still the same pain in the butt he was when he was little. He reminds us of Diogee so much except Diogee did'nt lick everyone haha. My friends and I are going to be going to Knotts and Scandia for the Halloween things they have going on next month. I remember last year they took me out a few days after you passed and I had the best time ever. I'm so lucky to have my friends dad, I know you'd love them. Okay, well I'm sick so I should probably get back to bed. I love you dad!

Kiley

September 27, 2006

Are you fishing in Heaven? I really bet you are. Thanks for Kadie's sign and the nice tug on her hair...she needed that. She's having such a hard time without you and I don't always know how to make things better, actually I never know how to make things better. Kiley will be getting her permit next month and your Dad is teaching her how to drive-he's a brave man! We all miss you so much Daniel, but in my heart I know you will always be here to watch over us like you always promised you would.

September 22, 2006

To the Daughters of Daniel Lobo:
I have been reading your reflections and I want you to know how sorry I am for the loss of your dad. I lost my father a few years ago, and I know how hard it can be. I know that Danny will watch over you and you will all grow into wonderful young woman.
On a side note, I have daughter named Kiley as well.
Keep your heads up girls!

Officer
Missouri

September 14, 2006

Hey Danny,

Miss ya. I have a picture of you and Ron in my office. Just thinkin of you bro.

Casey

August 27, 2006

THANK YOU DADDY!
Today i got to Maddison and Jennifer!
AWWW i was SOO happy!
Finally my prays have come true!
:) I love you!
Goodnight!

Kadieee

August 23, 2006

DANNY, JUST WANTED TO STOP BY AND SAY HI. I THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY. EVERY TIME I LOOK DOWN AT YOUR NAME ON MY WRIST BAND I THINK OF YOU AND ALL THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD TOGETHER. TAKE CARE BROTHER

LUCIFORA
UPLAND PD

LUCIFORA,PAUL
UPLAND PD

August 14, 2006

Dear Dad,
Tomarrow me and kiley are going like all over with grandma and papa and i cant wait, i wish you were here so you could come too but i know that you are coming not phisically but i know your there. Uhh all i really wanted to say is that i love you ALOTTTT and miss you ALOTTTT!
Hey dad please soften hearts and let everyone remeber that your gone and we shouldnt be mad at each other for silly reasons and please dad let me, grandma, papa, kiley see maddison. ive been praying but nothings happened so please cause i wanna be a part of her life and i know kiley and grandma and papa wanna be to.
its so hard without you here :(
i miss you everyday, i just want this bad dream to be over, i wanna wake up already!!!
AHHH i DONT wanna cry!
if i had one wish it would be to bring you back!!
okay now water works is really comind down :)
alrightyy im gonna probely go to bed
I LOVE YOU!!!!!
Goodnight Daddy!

Kadie Lobo

August 6, 2006

From Fresno

Danny Sr. and Gloria Lobo my heart goes out to you. It is hard to find those comforting words to help you go threw everything. The pain is so hard, when my nina Lupe past on, I couldn't believe we just seen her two weeks before. I have this poem and a picture of my mom when she past and it seem to say exactly how I fill. I want to share this with you and all the family.
"A Million times we've needed you, a million times we've cried. If Love alone could've saved you, you never would have died. In life we loved you dearly, In death we love you still. In our hearts you hold a place no one else could ever fill. It broke our hearts to lose you, but you didn't go alone. Part of us went with you, The day God took you home."

To all our Family, We love you and miss you. Love Niecie

Your Cousin Niecie
Your Family From Fresno Ca.

August 4, 2006

Danny,

It's been a long time my friend. Haven't seen you since High School as our lives and careers took us on different paths. God only knows how bad I wish this wasn't the way we meet up again. Things are well on this end. I just completed my 18th year in the Marine Corps with only four more to go before I call it a day. You will never be forgotten and I promise to keep in touch from this point on.

Semper Fidelis,

Dave

SSgt Dave Roof USMC
Friend

July 31, 2006

CORKY....

You have been heavy in my heart lately. There is not a day that goes by with out thinking of you and not wearing your memorial band, for me to wear that is like you are still close by, I know that sounds stupid but that is how I feel. Our group of friends still get together with Jen, I want you to know that she is one of us and that will never change, it is not the same without you here but we make the best of this so called part of our life now. I know you look over your loved ones and keep them safe. Corky you are deeply missed.

corky

Shannon Bannes
Dear Friend

July 30, 2006

Danny,
It has been a long time since I have left a message for you!!!! Everyone at work thinks about you everyday. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. Ron & I bought a place in Havasu & we have your picture right by the tv. I miss you so much. This was the year we were supposed to be at the river hanging out!! But we will definitly think of you this year at River Daze when we are on the water.

I just wanted to say hi & I miss talking to you every week. I have been talking to your wife and I know she is having a very difficult time without you. Of course, she had a difficult time when you were here (you know that sarcastic attitude and all!!!)....but everyone misses you.

Take care...
Stacey

Stacey

July 25, 2006

Heyy dad i just felt like writing to you and to tell you that i love you!! Umm dad i really miss seeing maddison,can you please let me see her?!?!?! Anyways i love you!!!!!!

Kadie

July 6, 2006

hey man,
it's almost that time of year that we were waiting for. I'm going up to laughlin next week to pick some stuff up if ya know what i mean. It's not gonna be the same without you but we all know you'll be there in our hearts. Maddie is getting so big so fast, we're just waiting for her to start talking since she understands everything. whenever i ask her where daddy is she pauses for a min then points up to the sky. Anyway, just thought i'd fill you in on some things going on here.....watch over us brother!!

Dep. Bryan Bosowski
SBSD

June 22, 2006

Hi Danny- Happy Father's Day!
I have been reading your reflections but it has been too hard to try to write anything. Danny,I miss you. Jen and Maddie miss you so much. Mel,Kadie and Kiley miss you. We all miss you so much. Your mom, Dad and Eric miss you. This is hard for me but I know it is way harder for them. My brother always talks about you. :) There are very few times I have questioned God, and this is definitely one of those times. You are definitely one of a kind. Is that good or bad? It's both! :) I miss "grandma Yupe", my dad, my granpa Jess and my precious Anissa Raynae so much. Take care of her for me. I couldn't think of a better dad that could do it besides my own. So take turns okay. Don't let grandma spoil her too much. :) Don't worry none of us will let them forget you, just like none of you guys let me forget my dad. I love you and miss all of you guys so much. I hope this gets a little bit easier for your girls. It will be 20 years this November 15th (your Birthday)since my dad died and it still hurts. Alot. I am very glad and very thankful that we have such an awesome, yet dysfunctional, family that all help and love each other so much. Aunt Judy sends me these crazy, yet very funny, laugh out loud,text messages sometimes that could only be from her if you know what I mean. :) I wear your remembrance bracelet all the time. It helps. Not only to help with you, but also with grandma, my dad, my grandpa Jess and Anissa Raynae. It's funny, my kids didn't meet you right away, but they do remember you. Merissa loves Kadie, Kiley and Maddie so much! Everytime the boys see a motorcyle cop they say hi and talk to them about how cool it is to have a cousin that was a police officer, especially a police officer on a motorcycle. :) I love you and I will talk to you later. -Rachel

Rachel
cousin

June 20, 2006

Happy Father's Day...We love and miss you very much.

Jen Maddie

June 19, 2006

Hey buddy, Rancho has had another loss. Reserve Deputy Angel "Jake" Calzada. He died exactly three mile west of you on the same street. He was not on duty so I can't leave him a reflection. I'm sure you two are sucking down some cold ones and regulating. Tell him I love him and you guys take care.

Mike Prescher
Rancho Cucamonga Police, Reserve Deputy

June 18, 2006

Happy Father's Day Daddy

Kiley

June 18, 2006

this may seem strange but last night when i went downstairs to let duke out. i looked at the clock and it was 11:11. and right now when i closed the officer down site it was...11:11. i dont know but maybe its a sign. i love you dad

Kiley

June 16, 2006

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