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Lance Corporal Jonathan Wade Parker

South Carolina Highway Patrol, South Carolina

End of Watch Monday, May 16, 2005

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Reflections for Lance Corporal Jonathan Wade Parker

Thinking of you today on your birthday. Giving thanks to God for the time that you were here. Miss you and love you.

Debbie Brewer
Family

October 11, 2012

To fully appreciate the heroes of the present, we must recognize our heroes of the past. Your heroism and service is honored today, the seventh anniversary of your death.

Your family is in my heart's embrace. Our families began our grief journeys very close in time.

Rest In Peace.

Phyllis Loya
Mom of fallen California Officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg PD, eow 4/24/05

May 24, 2012

Trooper Parker,
Its been 7 years and I still see the flames and feel the heat. I told my oldest daughter about the significance of May 16th. I cried as did she. She told me that it was gods plan and that Rudy and I did all that we could. She told me that you had already gone to be with god. This, comming from a 13 year old touched my heart and helped me through the 7th anniversary of your passing. It still hurts. Praying for your family. Rest peacefully my brother. Thank you for your sacrifice.


Lin

Inv T.O. (Lin) Ham
CCSO Investigations

May 20, 2012

Trooper its been seven years to the day that I failed to get through the flames. I made my way to 527 and Skinner rd today like I have every year since 2005 and said the same prayer for your family. RIP Troop and as always I'm sorry.

INV. Rudy Tisdale
Divison of Investigations SCDC

May 16, 2012

I can't stop thinking about you today bro. Lots have things have changed in seven years and. Boy do I wish you were here to live it with me. As I sit by your resting spot I reflect all those times good and bad. I believe you are the only man I have ever sat in the median and cried with. No matter what it was I always could count on you. You are a great friend!

Fred Moore
SCSO

May 16, 2012

Seven years of mornings ago, we all got up, got ready for work, went to out jobs, but one of us would never return home. That was you. Miss you. Love you all the way to heaven.
Mom B.

Debbie Brewer
family

May 16, 2012

Seven years. This time of year, the leaves have a certain shade of green, the air a certain feel which causes us to feel anew the pain, the shock, of your loss.You will never, ever be forgotten.

Debbie Brewer
family

May 3, 2012

Jon,
As the years pass, the pain still shows. I think about that ill fated day in May, 2005 and the uneasy feeling as Rudy and I followed in the pursuit. I still see the flames, I still feel the heat, I'm sorry my brother that we couldn't get through the flames. It still hurts just as bad as it did almost 7 years ago, but I am honored and privileged to have known a hero such as you. Rest peacefully my brother. Thank you for your sacrifice.

Lin

Inv T.O. (Lin) Ham
Clarendon County Sheriff's Office

March 29, 2012

Dearest Jon,
Still miss you every single day. You will never be forgotten.
Love,
Mom B.

Debbie Brewer
Family

February 22, 2012

Hey JonJon...it's been a while since I've left a message, but I do think about you often...I don't know why you were taken away from us, but God had a reason...sure do miss you...you sure are a hero in my book...I know Mike and Karen, and of course Mom and Dad miss you very much...Can't wait to see you again...Love you always...Dee

Dianne Schaffer
Sister

September 11, 2011

TROOPER ITS BEEN 6 YEARS TODAY SINCE YOUR WATCH ENDED AND SOUTH CAROLINA LOST A HERO. WE'VE STILL GOT THE WATCH AND I KNOW YOU'VE BEEN RIDING BACK UP WITH US AND FOR THAT I THANK YOU. AS ALWAYS BROTHER I'AM SORRY I COULDN'T GET THRU THE FLAMES

SGT. RUDY TISDALE
CLARENDON COUNTY S.O.

May 16, 2011

I thought of you about a kajillion times today. Six years ago. There was a wreath at the Clarendon Co. LE Memorial.
Remembering you always, all the way to heaven.

Debbie Brewer
ma-in-law

May 16, 2011

Life goes on; seasons change as do we all. One thing that will never change is the empty space in the hearts of all those who love you. Love, not loved. Our love for you will live on in our hearts. Remembering you, every day, always.

Debbie Brewer

April 7, 2011

Uncle Jon-Jon,

More of your brothers in uniform were killed today here in Tampa. I wonder if the killers will ever know how much pain they have caused the families of the officers...? I wonder if your killer ever thinks of the devastation he has caused our family...? Today, I struggle to understand this crazy world.

I miss you so much.

Love,

Kim

Kimberly Daly
Niece

January 24, 2011

Miss you man I have change if you need it

T. L. Herbert

January 24, 2011

I think and reflect about you all the time these days brother.

Cpl. F L Moore
SCSTP

January 14, 2011

Rest In Peace brother, your memory will never be forgotten.

Officer C. Davis
Charleston County Sheriff's Office

July 12, 2010

Its been five years today and your brothers in grey will never forget you.L/Cpl I never had the chance to meet you because my patrol class didn't start until 07/10/2005.God bless you and your family because I know it never gets any easier. L/Cpl any time you want to ride shotgun you're more than welcome.God speed sir.

Sr/Trp W.T. McKinney
South Carolina Highway Patrol

May 16, 2010

TROOPER ITS BEEN 5 YEARS TO THE DAY SINCE SOUTH CAROLINA LOST A HERO. AS ALWAYS BROTHER IAM SORRY I COULDNT GET THRU THE FLAME. RIP TROOPER WE STILL GOT THE WATCH

SGT. RUDY TISDALE
CLARENDON S.O.

May 16, 2010

I woke up this morning and was reading the news on the net, saw that another officer lost his life in the line of duty. When I looked at officer Shuhandler’s picture, I could not help but see the similarities between he and my brother.

I have not posted anything on this site, it’s been five years now since the death of my brother and so much has happened or changed in my life. I am not even sure what to write..!

I just know when I read the story of the death of officer Shuhandler I felt compelled to write something to his wife, family and fellow officers.

After leaving a short message for his family and fellow officers I went to the “ODMP’ web page and looked up my brother, I read through all the postings and got all choked-up..!

The support from the SCHP and ODMP has been incredible; this is truly a family, and it really comes together in tragedies like this. And I thank all of them for there support and sympathies.

Too my brother, you were such a great man, I admired you and could only look up to you. You lived your life with such honor and character, I was so proud to call you my brother.

You were truly a “chip off the old block” I know father was proud of you as well, you had his gift of being creative with your hands. The work you did on your rifle stock was just incredible and your knife making was coming right along!

Rest easy my brother all is well, your wife Sue is doing just fine and is going to have a child, mother is doing fine and doing her thing, she went on a trip to Israel….! Pop and I plan on bird hunting some time soon; he has two bird dogs you would probably love…!

Mike

Anonymous

January 30, 2010

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Happy 4th of July, America! It's people like Jonathan that make our country great...unselfishly putting others before themselves. We are blessed to live in a country that still values life and liberty. Thanks to all our public servants who give of themselves on a daily basis to enrich our lives and secure our peace and safety. God bless each of you. With love from one coast of America to
the other.
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Lynn Kole
Bellingham, Washington

Anonymous

July 4, 2009

Precious Jon,
Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. Your absence continues to mark each day, but I try not to spend too much time imagining what might have been.
Miss you.
Love you.
Mom B.

DEBBIE BREWER
FAMILY

May 27, 2009

Your heroism and service is honored today, the fourth anniversary of your death. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer who was murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.

Time never diminishes respect. Your memory will always be honored and revered.

Rest In Peace.

Phyllis Loya

Phyllis Loya
mother of fallen officer Larry Lasater

May 18, 2009

To Lance Corporal Jonathan Wade Parker, his family and his fellow officers with the South Carolina Highway Patrol:

Our heartfelt thoughts are with you on the anniversary of Lance Corporal Parker’s tragic death and we honor him for his valor and sacrifice to the community. Rest in Peace, Lance Corporal Parker and thank you for your service.

Wives Behind The Badge, Inc
Members and Staff

May 16, 2009

Parker,

I am sitting at my computer, working on a term paper that is due tonight. It is on the Highway Patrol, part of a government class that I am taking. As I write this paper all I can do is think of you, the hunting we did, all the ROTC events over the fours years we where in it together, the old Scout that you were so proud of... I think it was a Scout. I digress... Lucy and I remember May 15th very well. We were watching TV and a breaking story came on about a fallen trooper in Sumter County. Lucy said, "God, please don't be Parker..." As the story broke, we learned that it was you and very deeply, deeply saddened... I immediately called Capt. Andrews to let him know.

We miss you and think about you often.

-Bean SHS c/o '93

Brian D. Bean
High School Friend

November 30, 2008

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