Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Corporal Mark David Jones

Hardeeville Police Department, South Carolina

End of Watch Sunday, February 27, 2005

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Reflections for Corporal Mark David Jones

Deanna, & girls and Mr. & Mrs. Jones,

I just wanted to wish you all a Christmas full more smiles than tears and many wonderful memories of Mark. I know this first Christmas is hard, and I'm very sorry that you're going through this. But, please know that you are on my mind and in my prayers today and in the holidays to come.

I am here if ever you need me. Beverly with Carolina COPS knows how to reach me if you do. Please give Taylor a big hug for me and let her know that I'm thinking about her, too (and hoping that my dad is with her dad--two marines--sharing this Christmas together watching their girls.)

My love and prayer to you all...

Valarie

Valarie Bell Wright
Daughter of Ptl. William B. Bell, EOW 11-19-02

December 25, 2005

Mark,

Merry Christmas, honey. I miss you so much. Things are just not the same without you.

I took the kids to San Diego to be with my family for Christmas. I wanted to give them something to look forward to. Can you believe we pulled it off and were able to surprise everyone. Yes, Denise kept a secret. I think it has made the holidays easier (as much as possible) on all of us. We lit a candle for you this morning. I wanted you to be as much a part of Christmas as possible.

As we all gather and get ready for dinner, you are on all of our minds. We hurt so much at your being gone, but are thankful for all the love, happiness and laughter you brought into our lives. You touched this family in so many ways and on so many levels. You enriched our lives through your love and devotion to family and friends, not just mine and the kids.

Mark, I will forever cherish the time spent with you and the memories you gave me. I am so proud of you and what you accomplished in a life that was too short by far. Thank you for everything you shared with me and for continuing to watch over us all.

I will always love you.

Deanna

Wife of Cpl. Jones

December 25, 2005

Sitting in Ohio missing you on this special day, Merry Christmas Mark. I may have only new you for a short period of time, but it feels like I have known you forever. All Police officers are brothers and the impression that you left with me will last forever. I wish your family the best holidays possible and I know we will reunite again someday. Love Clay Ingram

Ptl. Clay Ingram
HPD/WPD

December 25, 2005

Merry Christmas Mark, WOW! our first Christmas without you, sure is tough. Everyone says time heals-the clock is still ticking and I am still waiting. The Christmas I remember most is the last one in Beaufort when we were all together. I look at the picture with the three of you guys sitting on the sofa opening the boxes with the socks and the pocket knives and the grins on your faces. Now that you are gone,I know why everyone came to Beaufort for that year. You are loved and missed so much. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. We love you and miss you and know that you are at peace. Love Always Mom

Darlene Jones/Mother

December 25, 2005

Mark, Merry Christmas! I Love You Brother, and miss you ,more and more every day. God Bless You, Deanna, Taylor, and Kayla this Christmas.

Pfc. Eric Baxter & K9 Yenta
Jasper County Sheriffs Office

December 22, 2005

Mark,
You really have touched alot of lifes I see. I know you really touched mine. I think of you so much and wish you were still with us. Its not fair how you were taking from us so soon. Yor time on earth was not nearly enough. I think of you so much and thank the good Lord for letting me get to know you. You will never be forgotten even in years to come I will look back on the times we had and the jokes we shared. I can still hear you sing cause you did everytime I seen you. The song that sticks out in my head that you loved was "Toby Keith" Beer for my horses. Mark you are so missed. Watch over us my dear friend. Rest in peace.

your friend always
miss you my dear friend

December 14, 2005

Mark,

I went through basic jail with you, class #188 in 2001. I couldn't believe it was you when i saw the picture. I guess you never know what the future holds however I know you were an awesome man as well as a great officer. Enjoy your life and rest in peace knowing we are still hard at work and you will never be replaced or forgotten. You gave everything for the people of South Carolina and I hope that people realize that officers are also people with their own families and share of problems. May your family have a wonderful holiday and may you watch over your children while they enjoy christmas. Take care brother and enjoy your time knowing the job is still getting done.

Deputy E. Russell
Anderson County Sheriff's Office

December 6, 2005

mark,
you was always there for me. you
would help me when I needed you.
you would always make sure I was safe and happy. you would always
cheer me up when I needed someone to talk to.

that is why you will never be forgotten
joshua

joshua carroll

December 6, 2005

Mark,
I am sitting here thinking about you and some of the times we use to have. All i can do it smile cause you always made me happy and smile everytime you were around which was everyday. If i couldnt count on anything else i knew you would drop by to chat and joke around and i really miss those times. Just like that saying you dont know what you got until its gone well i know i had a very good friend and i really cherious the memories i have of you and i miss you more and more.It is really hard for me to come to or threw Hardeeville knowing i cant see you. I do come visit you but not as much as i would like cause it is very very hard on me. Please continue to watch over us and know that you were loved and are still loved more you will ever know. The memories i have of YOU keep me going and you have a special place in my heart. I Love you my dear friend always and 4 ever.

missing you my friend
times are tough without you

December 3, 2005

Mark,

Just sitting here thinking about all of our good times on and off work. I miss you brother!

GySgt O'Neill, Sean P USMC
Reserve Officer Hardeeville PD

December 3, 2005

Dear mark/dad,
I hope you are doing all right in heaven it's probally nice there I don't know but i hear good things. I'm trying my best to send comfort in my letters [and trying to remember to write them] to taylor and kayla but it's not the same as being there. I am going over there this summer and looking foward to it every day. i'm looking foward to spending quality time with my sisters, nana, and papa. love, Jordan

son [jordan]

November 30, 2005


HOLIDAY:

We think of you and your family during these holidays, and offer thoughts and prayers as you celebrate without your loved one. Cherish the memories of the past and be open to new ones with your loved ones and friends. Your loved one will never be forgotten and always honored for their sacrifice.

Alissa Scott
Widow of Wayne Scott
E.O.W. 09-10-02

Lisa Schultz
Widow of Don Schultz
E.O.W. 05-12-03

Co-Founders of Survivor Help Network
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November 29, 2005

Daddy,
happy Thanksgiving to.I made a poem for
you,hope you like it!!!!!!!!!!!


T is for the day of giving thanks
h is for hope and love is spred
a is for the amazing feast we have
n is for nice people greet you
k is for kisses and hugs all about
s is for sevral amounts of food
g is for a time of giving
i is for i love you
v is for very nice time
i is for i love thanksgiving
n is for never ending family fun
g is for great time of the year

hope you like my poem daddy!!!!!!!!


love always,
Taylor

Taylor daughter of cpl Mark Jones

November 24, 2005

Happy Thanksgiving, Honey.

I love you.

Deanna

Wife of Cpl. Mark Jones
EOW 2/27/05

November 24, 2005

Dear Taylor,
AS i sit and think of the past of knowing you daddy (Mark).WE talked alot and he always would talk about you,your mother,your sister and your brothers and his mother, father and brothers.WE were very, very good friends. I seen him daily and i miss him alot.I want you to remember your daddy loves you all very much and he will always be with you. He sees everything you do. So sweetheart just make him proud and he is always smiling at you. One day we will all see him again and we all will have alot to talk about with your daddy(Mark). Be good for your mother and help each other to be strong. love always,

your dear friend always and 4 ever
missing you more

November 5, 2005

dear daddy,
I miss you so much.I wish you were here to see all of my acomplishments.I still remember the great times we had together.Like the father/daughter days when you and i spent the day together and we met up with mom and sissy and went to a resturant or someting.those were the good times but now you are gone.Come back daddy please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

love,
Taylor

Taylor daughter of cpl Mark Jones

November 3, 2005

Dear Taylor,

Hi, Taylor. I read your message tonight and couldn't help but feel that your daddy would be sooooo proud of you!! You speak your heart so clearly for a 9 year old. Your momma and daddy must be VERY, VERY proud!!

I'm sorry that you're going through this. I know this is so hard and just really unfair. I wanted you to know that you were on my mind. I know just a tiny bit of what you're going through because I lost my daddy, too. My dad was a police officer and a Marine like your daddy. And, my daddy died doing this job, too. Though I was an adult when he died, I can kind of understand a little bit of what you mean when you say that you need him so much. I miss and need my daddy, too. But, I always have to remember that my dad is with me in my heart FOREVER!! I know that it hurts so bad and you need him, but always remember that your daddy is in your heart with you forever, too! I'm sure he would be so proud of you and your sister and what beautiful girls you're becoming. He'd be so proud of your mommy and the awesome job she's doing, too. He's got to be prouder than ever. Just always remember that he's with you in your heart always; you take him every where you go. I know you may not understand that right now but one day you will.

Keep your chin up. Know that he'll always be your daddy and you two will always be his little girls!!! And, remember that you made him sooo happy and proud. Most important, though, know that he will always, always love you.

Take care and be good for your momma--I know you already are, though. :)

Love,
Valarie

P.S. Mrs. Jones, I drove in from Charleston to attend your husband's wake. You were talking with someone so I didn't get to meet you, but I just wanted you to know that Mark's death touched me deeply. It reminded me of those early hours and days knowing that my dad was gone, and I just felt so heartbroken for you. You are a strong, strong woman, and I know that you and Mark must be so proud of the beautiful little angels that you two created. They will always be his baby girls and you'll always be his baby, too. I am so sorry for your loss, but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Taylor's message really touched me. Her words seemed like my own. I know where she is coming from because I miss my daddy, too! But, her words really touched me tonight because her request was so sincere and honest. It breaks my heart. I know this road is unbareable at times, but I'm sure Mark is walking it with you. Take care. God bless you and those beautiful baby girls.

--Valarie

Valarie Bell Wright
Daughter of Ptl. William B. Bell, EOW 11-19-02

October 29, 2005

Dear daddy,
I really wish you were here.It seems like when i need you most you are not there.I need you so badly and i can't see or touch you.i wish i could just see you one more time.daddy please come back to me. i love you daddy so much!!!and if i could change anything i would.but im only 9 years old and i need you i dont know how to deal with this.i miss you daddy.


Love,
Taylor

Taylor
daughter of Cpl. Mark Jones

October 27, 2005

Mark,

You are truly missed and remembered everyday. I can't believe it has been eight months since you were taken from us. To this day the impact you have on everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you and meeting you is still and always will be felt and above all treasured. Mark, I still can't understand why such things happen to good people, and to such vibrant young men such as yourself and my Ryan. I do not understand why our families have had these tragic events happen. I am very thankful for all the help and support that Deanna has given Chuck and myself. If it weren't for her I don't think I would or could get through this. Mark please watch over all of us and keep the rest of the families safe. I will be coming to see you Sunday, when I go see Ryan. Sunday will be two months since Ryan was taken from us, please give him a hug and tell him I love and miss him dearly. Mark thank you for being with Ryan and I love and admire you both. Not a day goes by that you won't be in my heart,soul, and thoughts. I treasure the friendship that we have and the fun times and memories that we shared.

Fondest memories and thoughts

Much Love and Admiration always

wanda martin
family friend

October 26, 2005

Mark, you are a model officer as well as a model human being. The move from Pennsylvania to South Carolina was hard but you were the first one to really make me feel like one of the guys. I remember when I first started on the job when you would play jokes. I remember one of them in particular. It was my first night in South Carolina and I was staying at the Comfort Inn. You came to my room and asked if I wanted to go play poker at Dan's house. I agreed and you came to pick me up that night. On the way to Dan's house you told me that I would meet a guy named Paul. You told me to not look at him in the eye because he was crazy and he hates when people look at him in the eye. So, when we arrived at Dan's house you introduced me to Paul. I shook his hand while looking straight down at the ground. Through the entire night I never looked at him in the eye. That night you let me know that you and Paul were just playing a joke. You got me good that night. I miss you brother. I can't wait to see you again.

PFC. Harry German
Hardeeville PD

October 20, 2005

I know your life
On earth was troubled
And only you could know the pain
You weren’t afraid to face the devil
You were no stranger to the rain

Chorus:
Go rest high on that mountain
Son, you work on earth is done
Go to heaven a shoutin’
Love for the father and son

Oh, how we cried the day you left us
We gathered round your grave to grieve
I wish I could see the angels faces
When they hear your sweet voice sing

Mark,I still cry whenever I read your reflections.You touched so many lives including mine and I miss you.
Leila is 7 months old now and I wish you could have met her,she is such a happy baby.
I'm sure I'm not the only one who wishes to have you back just one more time just so I can tell you how much you ment to us.
And one more thing Mark"what I can do for you?"
Heavenly hugs my friend.

Trish
friend of Mark and wife Deanna

October 18, 2005

Mark, I talked with Deanna recently she is doing well, I stopped at the house the other day on patrol I hit the sirens horn and out came the girls, they are still as sweet as ever, I hugged them for you. I also met Deanna's son, he's a hell of a guy, he gives me the impression he is looking out for your family. We got alot of 06's you would like them. We have a good dept. Callais, Jenkins, and Mcclatchy are all top notch like you. I have a new respect and love for my Hardeeville PD family we are not just call sign numbers we are all human we make good choices and bad ones, I didn't look at me comrades as my family until you changed that, I could not feel any different in my sadness regarding your death if we were blood brothers, you made my family and heart grow, now I really feel deep in my heart and soul that each and every one of my PD. compadres are blood brothers regardless of any past indifferences, all is forgiven, a new slate is in place, this I realized through tragedy, your death did not come in vein, it bettered my soul,and the dept. Not a day goes by I don't think of you and have concern for the well being of your loved ones.I cry alone in memory of you sometimes to and from work, I get the chills when I see your picture at PD. I'ts like your going to walk in but you don't, yet still your spirit is felt.Watch out over me, keep me safe.You will NEVER be forgotten.Ok don't laugh I'm sure I spelled something wrong but I write to you in good faith! Man it's hard being a supervisor, people don't understand your responsibilities, your allways the bad guy, I really hope that others see the light and learn to know who and what I stand for and why I am me, I really care for the officers though some of them have blurred vision, please with the spirit of God give them the guidance to see the light crisply and clearly, I love each and every one of them and my heart is crying out for their understanding.
It's time to go now, you are in my prayer's this morning as I sit home alone on my day off thinking about my brother Mark who I repect and care about. Thank you for bettering me as a man, father, husband, and officer.
your brother, Rick Keefner

SSgt. Rick Keefner
Hardeeville PD.

October 12, 2005

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARK,
I couldnt bring it to myself to write to you the day of your birth.But you were in my heart as always.I truly miss you more everyday.There is so many things we talked about and when i think of them i just smile.What i would give to have you back with us all of us.You kept me going daily whether you came by or called, i knew i would hear from you one way or another.I miss the phone calls i miss seeing you.You will always be with me in my heart and thoughts.I miss you so very much i cant begin to tell you. Cant wait until we can talk and laugh like we use to i miss those time and i really miss you....
love you always and 4 ever Roses are red, violets are blue, no one with ever replace the special place in my heart that was made just 4 you. LOVE ALWAYS MY DEAR FRIEND

your dear friend that misses you more
and more no one will touch my heart the way you did.

October 11, 2005

Happy Heavenly Birthday Mark,
Dad and I went to the National Cemetary yesterday to bring you flowers and a balloon for your birthday. I really had planned to be making "mom's pizza" for you after you and your Dad spent "a good day" out hunting. Guess sometimes we don't get what we want. It is really hard to "visit" you at the cemetary. You are with me every day, every where I go. My heart still hurts, but I don't really expect that to go away--EVER. We all miss you so much and are trying very hard to learn to live our lives without you in them. We are very proud of the person you had become.
I know that one day I will see you again. I love you very much and will miss you always. I know you are watching over us. Keep the streets of Heaven safe.
All My Love,
Mom

Darlene Jones/Mother

October 8, 2005

Happy Birthday Mark.

Once again, instead of celebrating with you, I took you flowers. It still doesn't feel real. I keep thinking this must be some kind of mistake. This is so hard, I am still trying to accept it.

When I went to visit you, all I could think about are the things you will never get a chance to do. I kept thinking of all the people you have helped and how much more you would have done.

I can't help but feel you were cheated out of so many things. You aren't here to teach Kayla and Taylor to drive. You had been talking about that for a long time. I can still hear you teasing the girls that you would meet their dates at the front door (while you were cleaning your shotgun). You won't be able to see the girls graduate from school and go to college. You won't be able to watch the kids grow up and get married. You will never have the chance to be a grandpa. We also looked forward to the later years of our lives and how we would spend them together. We always laughed that we would be the old couple still holding hands.

You told me for years that Wade would be back when he turned 18. I wanted to let you know you were right. You would be very proud of the man he is becoming. I don't know how I would have gotten through Ryan's funeral without him. Whatever Wanda and I needed, he was right there to help. Even with all we had him doing the first week he was back, he somehow managed to find a job. He is working for a local Ford dealer. He has also been a big help to Taylor. He is always there for her to talk to. I remember you talking about taking him out on his 21st birthday. I am so sorry you won't be able to. It won't be the same, but I will take him out and we will have a toast in your memory.

I told myself I would spend the day celebrating your life. I really tried, but it was so hard when I all I could think of was how much you will miss out on. I made you a promise that I will do everything I can to keep. I will try to continue to be the same person I grew to be through your love. I hope you understand if I sometimes fail, it is so hard without you.

I am having so much trouble accepting the fate life has dealt you. I wonder why this has happened. I have so many questions and no answers. Did I do something in my life that God punished me for by taking you? I know you have done nothing in your life to deserve this. People keep telling me that God has a special job for you. Why weren't you able to finish the job you had here with us. Yes, you accomplished more than most, but you had so much left to give.

Even though I have so many questions and I wake up each day to face the pain of losing you all over again, I want you to know how proud I am of you. You are a role model for so many people. You lived your life by the values you believed in.

I would not be the person I am if it were not for you. I hope I gave you as much happiness as you brought into my life. I know how lucky I was to share my life with you. I hope you felt the same. I want to thank you for all the joy and love you shared with me. The time we had together was not long enough, but I wouldn't trade it for anything. I would give anything to have you back with me. I know its not possible, but I still can't help wishing for something I can never have again.

Thank you again for allowing me to be a part of your life. I love and miss you so much. You really are "All that is Man".

Happy Birthday, Honey.

Deanna

Wife of Cpl. Jones
EOW 2/27/05

October 7, 2005

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