Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Happy Thanksgiving Pete. You are missed but not forgotten brother.

CAS

November 21, 2006

They named a street after you, Pete. I wish there had been another way for you to nail your name in the pages of history, but I take comfort in the knowlege that generations will pass that sign and know you were once ther, and there for them.

Country

October 17, 2006

Peter,

Grandpa (Uncle Ed) went home to see you and Grandma a couple of days ago. I can only imagine the smile on his face as you took hold of his hand and led him to paradise. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you for that Pete. Please take care of him. You both are missed so very much by the rest of the family. We know you both are in good, loving hands. Thanks so much and God Bless you too Peter.

Till we all meet again.......

Tim

Tim Lavery

September 5, 2006

Stand Down Sir
Thank you for your service!

J.R.
2nd 72nd Rangers

June 10, 2006

Still thinking and missing you! Love you.

NPD

June 9, 2006

We stood together, you and I, it wasn't that long ago, in that great city at that grand marble memorial that had been raised to honor so many fallen heros. We came, as we had done before, quitely seeking out the names of some of the heros who where familiar to us. You often said it is our duty to honor and remember the sacrifices of all those whos names where etched upon the walls.

We stood together, you and I, it wasn't that long ago, looking over a vast battlefield of a long ago war not forgotten by time. You said it didn't matter why they were fighting, they did so because they believed in their cause right or wrong. It was not up to us to judge them. They were men of honor and courage.

I stood alone, it wasn't that long ago, at that same memorial wall. Something was different, something had changed. A new name had been etched upon that wall, a new soul had been welcomed by the many brave heros who had come before him.

I stood alone, it wasn't that long ago, looking over that same battlefield recalling our many conversations. This time I was remembering a modern soldier, a man of honor and courage, a man who fought for what he believed in.

I stood in a quiet cemetary where time stands still, your name etched upon a stone....a quiet salute to a fallen centurian, a soldier, a friend.

Peace my friend

JD

May 27, 2006

Hi Pete,

I just had birthday parties for Nate & Jameson over these past couple of weeks. Nate turned 6 and Jameson is 3. Grandpa(Uncle Ed to you) came to Nate's B-day party and we started talking about you. Pete its been over a year, and to Grandpa, it seems like it just happened. He misses you so very much, but most important, he is SO VERY PROUD OF YOU. Please look after him Pete. He is turning 90 in less than a month. I know for certain it would make him feel good knowing that you and Grandma are looking out for him.
Pete NOT A DAY GOES BY that you are not thought about. Even Nate asks about you from time to time. He is so proud of his policeman cousin. He wants to go visit you at St. Mary's. I told him that we will in the spring.
Rest in peace Pete. WE ARE ALL SO VERY PROUD OF YOU.

Tim Lavery

March 7, 2006

Was telling Lisa and Kids about "Lavery full-contact Basketball"...Tackle Football in torrential rain and 6" of mud in Dad's backyard, "Jam session" on Alexander Rd..Me, you and Donnie hiking on that "Big hill with trees"..."No stripers, but sure is a nice blowfish Unc".....When I see the memorials that say "Never Forget"..."Always remember"....That man who took you from us, has no idea how many people he also left a void in, by taking you from us...

with Love
J,L,J,J

Jimmy, Lisa, Jimmy lll, Jillian

February 11, 2006

Peter, a year has passed and you remain in our daily thoughts and prayers. Pete, you know that Jimmie is a reserved kind of guy, and wouldn't be prone to expressing his feelings. But I want to tell you how very important you remain to him, and how very much he misses you. Sometimes he is just inconsolable. The only time I don't gripe about him smoking a stinky cigar is when it is in honor of you. We made the trek to Gettysburg, and he pointed out every monument that you had pointed out to him, and he shared with me your view of the battles, and the sometimes "difference of opinions", you all had.
It was good to see him reflect back on those visits with such happiness. By the way, Peters Road was beautiful. Jim considered you his closest friend and brother, and I want to thank you for your gift of friendship. Thank you for how you touched our lives and the lives of so many others. When and if I ever get to heaven, I do want to discuss with you the whole Gettysburg battle. I have kind of a different spin on it, and it has to do with shoes! But I'll save it for when we see you again. Please give Ciara a hug from me. I know she's in good hands.
Until next time,
Angie D

Angela C. Deschenes, Cpl. (Ret.)
Farmington Police Dept. Farmington CT

January 11, 2006

Peter - A new year is already upon us here...I remember the total shock and terrible wave of sadness and anger that washed over me a year ago as the reality set in that you were lost...We all stood at our various posts that horrible, cold night, waiting for word, waiting to take care of you, not wanting to beleve that we could not. Your family is so strong, Pete... you would be so proud of Pam and Raymond and Samantha...they have maintiained a state of grace throughout this whole ordeal. They each have reached out to the others around them, your friends and co-workers, and comforted us, as we have tried to comfort them. I only hope that we have helped to ease their burdens some over the time that has passed since you left us. You know how it has been...we have not forgotten you, but instead your memory, and the thoughts of times we all shared with you have become stronger. I know now that they will never fade. Your 'Sargeant-o' misses you something fierce. We are honored to have had you call us your friends, and we are honored that your family continues to also. God rest you, and keep you well, brother. We're hanging on here, but it will never be the same since that fateful evening such a short time ago....

Big Country
PPD

January 1, 2006

M.P.O Lavery..you - your family - friends & co-workers are in my thoughts & prayes as they remember you on your 1 yr. anniversary..continue to watch over them & your fellow brothers/sisters in blue..YOU ARE GONE..BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN..REST IN PEACE & WITH EASE BLUE ANGEL!!

girlfriend of a dpd
detroit, mi

December 31, 2005

Peter, time does not heal all wounds...I can't believe it has been a year since we lost you. You will forever be in my mind and my heart.

Officer
BPD

December 30, 2005

I can't believe it has been one year already. It seems like yesterday. To lose Rita and you within 8 months is just ripping me apart. I am holding on to what your last words were to me before you left my house (after Rita's funeral in CA) "I love you, Sis" ! Those words are etched within my soul. As you have always told me....I am going to part take in the finer things.
At 2220 tonight, I am going to hold up a "shot of Fine Irish Whiskey" in you honor and memory.
Sleep well Baby Brother ! Rest Easy Poco Pete ! You are in my thoughts every minute of every day. I miss you so-o-o much.
Randy Nora and little Reanna

Nora Lavery Petrash

December 30, 2005

One year has gone by and it is still so hard to accept the fact that you are gone. It was too soon to have to say goodbye to you and it’s too late to let you know how much you truly meant to our family. You are missed terribly. You are not forgotten, but thought of so often, our beloved cousin.

“Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free.
I'm following the path God laid for me.
I took God’s hand when I heard the call.
I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day
to laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found that place at the close of the day.

If my parting has left a void, then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss.
Ah yes, these things I too will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow,
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much,
good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief;
don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me -
God wanted me now, Got set me free.”
-Author Unknown

With all our love,
Christina & Keri

December 30, 2005

Pete,
You are in our hearts
You are in our prayers
You are in our thoughts....

You are not forgotten

December 30, 2005

God bless you Pete. I cannot believe its been a year already. Rest assured that your memory will never be forgotten nor will your dedication as a police officer.

God bless you and Ciara too. You both are in everyone's thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace cousin.

Tim Lavery

December 30, 2005

im sorry for the loss offficer lavery the family has my sympathy

Explorer Gunther
Police Explorer

December 29, 2005

The 30th is coming up and I don't want it to. I do not want a year to go by without seeing you. You are the best and you will always be. I miss you so much and I always will. I love you!

Make sure that Ciara is safe with you. Hope you had a Merry Christmas in heaven.

Samantha Lavery

December 28, 2005

To the family of Officer Peter Lavery,
As the one year anniversary of Peter's death approaches, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Peter truly was a hero and will never be forgotten.
Mary Kay Balchunas
Mother of Jay Balchunas, EOW 11/5/04

December 27, 2005

Peter my freind,

It Christmass eve and I am thinking of you. It is hard to believe that it has been almost a year.

They say "Time heals all wounds"....not yet. I am still sad.

I know you are as happy as can be, up there looking down on us.

You are not forgotten and sadly missed.

Merry Christmas Brother.

CAS

December 24, 2005

I was thinking about you today. I miss you. Do they have all your Santas out? Do they know that thats what you want? I MISS YOU! I have decorated the houese. The babies will never know it is all your fault! Katie is Beautifl!You have to take care of us. It's been awfull. I needed you my friend. We are so sad and tired. I love you. ME

LMP
NPD

December 11, 2005

I was thinking about you today. I miss you. Do they have all your Santas out? Do they know that thats what you want?

LMP
NPD

December 11, 2005

Hello Peter,

As you know I'm home safe from my year in Iraq. I wish I had been home in time to participate in your ride this year. Although I was't able to go, I was there in my thoughts and my bike made the ride since Tanya rode it on the ride in my place. I had the new derby cover in your honor put on the bike and it looks terrific. Everywhere I go on the bike people notice it and ask me about you. I tell them if it wasn't for you constantly bugging me to get back on a bike I probably never would have. So it's your fault that I ride again. Thanks for being persistant!
Anyway, I was thinking of you and your family this Thanksgiving and how much we all miss you. I keep expecting you to pop in here at the VA like you used to and it hurts to know that won't happen.
As always you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Luke

MAJ Luke Boutot
CT Army National Guard

December 7, 2005

Officer Lavery,
I must admit I was ashamed that I had not found your memorial until I heard of Ciara's death. I know that the two of you are probably up there sharing stories and laughing. I pray for the two of you, for your family, and for your department.

May God Bless You All

Deputy Meredith Ward
Gulf County (FL) Sheriff's Office

December 1, 2005

Peter,

They say God only comes down to pick the flowers...well he picked two of the most beautiful to take back with him.

We all miss you. Take care of Ciara.

All our love.

CAS

November 28, 2005