Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

I had the pleasure of working with Bob for about 9 years with the Daytona Beach Police Dept. Bob was the most professional and personable man I have ever met. He was
a proud father and good man....I always respected Bob and looked at him as a mentor when I was a young rookie back in the early 90's.
I will always remember him as "MARY 11" when he was on motors....Boy, he sure could ride that bike...
I will never forget you my friend...I know you are in heaven looking down on your loved ones especially Bobby JR. and that new grandbaby.
Bobby Jr....This is Johnny Robbins and I am very sorry for your loss...
Follow in your Daddy's footsteps and you will do great things in life.
Good luck to you and "BE SAFE"...(congrats on the baby)

John Robbins (friend)

Former Police Det
Daytona PD

August 1, 2006

God took a great man from an outstanding city. All Ive read about this hero makes me wish I knew him. Im sure his family and his fellow officers will miss him deeply. God shine his grace and blessings on those who knew him.

Michal Vasica
Former Lee County Ms Reserve Deputy

July 8, 2006

Bob, I will miss the silly emails I would send to you busting your chops about not pressing hard enough on your reports. You would always send the emails back with huge letters saying "HOW'S THIS". You always had a smile on your face and it seemed nothing would bother you. You inspired all who knew you. I will miss you and your smile. Rest easy brother we have it from here.

Officer Cornelius
OBPD

February 17, 2006

As Nov. 13 came again this year, it was again a terrible birthday for me. If last year wasn't bad enough to see how thoughtfully you had already prepared my birthday cake and had it downstairs in the refrig. as you did for all of us faithfully. This year, Bobby did you proud and made my cake for me. It said happy birthday mommy for Abigail's sake. Although, she sang happy birthday to me and to herself. You can only imagine how empty This week has been without you here for Thanksgiving. But, the turkey was big, and Bobby baked your cheesecake and pumpkin chiffon pies. We are still looking for the coconut creme pie recipe, hidden away in one of your strange places. We miss you so much, and Abigail is realizing now that something bad happened to you, that a car hit you and made you bleed she says. She has heard us talking, and we are trying to teach her about not going into the street or a car can hurt her. Please continue to watch over us, help us with our pursuits to get all the facts straight regarding your accident (lead us in the right directions and send those to us that can help) All we want is the truth for you. You were truly the glue and the laughter for us all. Watch over Bobby at work, and give him strength to endure what he is facing.

All our love to you from our hearts. You are with us always.

Kelli Grim

Kelli Grim, wife of Bobby Grim, JR.

November 26, 2005

To the family and friends of Officer Bov Grim Sr., his fellow officers, and most especially to Officer Grim:

On this the first anniversary of your tragic death, please know that you are not forgotten. Your valor and dedication are still remembered and your memory honored. Rest in Peace, Officer Grim.

The many reflections left for you evidence that you were a man who was loved by many and a man who was well-respected by his peers. It is obvious from reading them that you touched many people's lives in a positive way. Not only did you leave a legacy of a son following you into law enforcement, you mentored many other officers.

May your family continue to be comforted by their law enforcement family, and other police survivors.

This reflection is sent with the utmost respect for the thirty six years of service Officer Grim gave to his community, and the citizens of Florida, and for the supreme sacrifice he and his family made on November 12, 2004.

Phyllis Loya, mother of Larry Lasater
Pittsburg PD eow 4/24/05

November 13, 2005

One year has passed since you were called away and I know your family and friends still grieve and will for a long time. There are no words of wisdom I can offer them except to keep your memory alive and from what I have read in your reflections, that is being done. You are a true hero and will never be forgotten.

Bob Gordon, father of fallen officer Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04

Bob Gordon, Asst. Chief, Retired
Riverside PD, IL

November 9, 2005

Hi Tiffany,
I think about you and your family all the time. The reflections left on this site are amazing. Your dad touched so many people during his lifetime. I always remember how intimidated I was by him when we were growing up. But everytime I remember him I see him smiling. I know he would be proud of you. I know that times are still hard and they will be for a very long time. The sadness never goes completly away. You, Linda, Jason and Bobby and the rest of your family are in my prayers and thoughts. Know that I am here for you if you ever need anything. Love, Kim

Friend, Kim

October 14, 2005

Today, 11 October 2005, Ormond Beach Police Officer Bob Grim was honored and remembered fondly by family and friends as a 1.5 mile stretch of Nova Road in Ormond Beach was officially renamed the "ROBERT F. GRIM SR. MEMORIAL PARKWAY".

This is a nice and fitting tribute to this fine gentleman and law enforcement officer who gave so much of himself to others through out his 36 year career in law enforcement. Bob left an indelible mark in our memories and hearts that will stay with us for many years.

On 12 November 2004 "A part of America died . . ."

On 11 October 2005 a part of America remembered Police Officer Robert Francis Grim Sr.

Thank you.

Robert A. Dea
DHS / TSA / former VCSO Deputy

October 11, 2005

Happy Father's Day
Dad, Poppy, Big Bob...We love and miss you today more than you could know.
All our love,
Bobby, Abigail, and Kelli

Bobby, Kelli, & Abigail Grim
Daytona Beach Police Dept.

June 19, 2005

I WANTED YOU TO KNOW MY THOUGHTS AND HEART ARE WITH YOU ALL. AFTER MEETING FAMILIES IN WASHINGTON YOU REALIZE WE ARE ONE BIG FAMILY DEALING WITH OUR LOSS ONE DAY AT THE TIME. IT IS DIFFERENT FOR EACH OF US. GRIEF TAKES ON A LIFE OF IT'S OWN. MAY EACH DAY GET A LITTLE BETTER FOR YOU. WE LOVE YOU C.O.P.S PARENTS JOHNNY & JEAN BLYLER

JEAN BLYLER
MOM OF DEPUTY JOSH BLYLER

May 27, 2005

Although known by my father for a very long time, I had very little contact with Officer Grim but for one key moment that will leave him in my mind. He sang at the F.O.P one night during a time when things were rough for me. As I was leaving he followed outside and placed a hand on my shoulder. Four simple words he said. "Keep your chin up," and he meant it.
Support from a man of character was something much needed and character he did have.

CW

May 18, 2005

You left a big hole in our lives and hearts. I promise that you will never be forgotten, and your sacrifice will not be in vain. You are in our thoughts every minute, your precious princess Abigail has just learned to say that poppy went to heaven; although she does not understand what that means. It helps me to keep from crying every time she asks for you. I cover her eyes and tell her she can see you and you are in her heart. And a little smile comes on her face as she repeats, "Poppy loves Abigail". It is more evident everyday, that you did not realize what a very special person you were. Your dedication to your work and "the people" is overwhelming. Thank you for the incredible legacy you left for your family. We will continue to honor you. A true "Hometown Heroe". Thank you for our special times and talks. You cannot begin to imagine how much your son is missing you too. His heart is so very heavy everyday he goes to work. His world is not the same without you. Keep watch over us all. You are our Guardian Angel! Thank you for the dreams, and the visits. xoxo

Kelli Grim, wife of Det. Bobby Grim
Daytona Beach Police Dept.

April 17, 2005

BOB, YOU WERE MY PARTNER AND MY FRIEND. YOU ONCE TOLD ME THAT I WAS A TRUE COPS, COP. YOU HAVE COMPELLED ME TO BE A BETTER OFFICER AND PERSON. NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK OF YOU. REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

OFC. LISA ROSENTHAL
ORMOND BEACH POLICE

April 16, 2005

My condolences to the family of Officer Bob Grim. It is so obvious from reading the reflections that Officer Grim will be dearly missed. He was a husband, a father, a grandfather, a brother, an uncle, a friend. I cannot begin to comprehend the sadness and the loss that his family has endured...and I thank them, and all other families who have lost an officer/fireman/solier while doing their job.

Rest in Peace, Sir. And God Bless Your Family.

"It is now how these Officers died that made them heroes, it is how they lived."


Jennifer S. Kish
An old friend of Officer Grim's son, Robert Grim
Worthington, Ohio (Columbus)

April 7, 2005

The world is not the same without you in it. I miss you so much Daddy and think of you every moment of everyday.

Tiffany McAlister
Daughter of Bob Grim

April 6, 2005

a tragic loss to a great friend and co-worker
we worked together 6 years at the airport
bob always had a cheerful word for you
he will be sadly missed

ASST.CHIEF JAMES L .ENGLAND (retired)
D.B.I.A. CRASH-FIRE-RESCUE

April 1, 2005

Bob was one of my sergeants when I first joined the department in the early 80's. I will always remember his professionalism. He was the kind of officer that we, as young recruits, strived to be. I haven't seen Bob since before I left for law school in 1995. I only learned of his passing today. I truly mourn his passing.

(Former ) Sergeant Daniel L. Overbey
Daytona Beach Police

February 17, 2005

My condolences to the Grim family. Bob was a special person. We were in Officer Cadidate School at Ft Benning, GA in 1965 and he was part of a quartet and we had them singing for every event that came along. Bob, I know you are singing in heaven with the big choir. God bless.

Lt Algie B. Warren
Us Army Infantry

February 7, 2005

Bob was a friend of mine and a co-worker. You will be missed. I enjoyed every day we worked together. Your impact on our department is beyond what you can imagine.

Ofc. Tom Larsen
Ormond Beach Police Dept.

February 7, 2005

my deepest sympathy to the family of Bob Grim. I first met Bob in 1994. He did not have much time to talk, but he spent a couple of hours giving me advise and direction. I will never forget him or his devotion to Law Enforcement. He is the type of Police Officer I think we all aspire to be.
Corporal Christopher Heard D.O.D
Virginia Beach, VA

Corporal Christopher Heard
Department of Defense

January 10, 2005

You were one of the first officer's (deputy) I had ever known. Your inspiration and friendship will always be in my heart. Thanks for the laughs, the guidance and the fellowship. May God be with you and your family.
Corporal Chris Heard

Corporal Christopher Heard
Department of Defense

January 10, 2005

As a fellow Police Officer and a recent menber of the Ormond Beach area I would like to say that I'am very sorry for your loss of Officer Robert f. Grim, to his family and his department. God Bless you all.

Ret. Police Officer Robt. Moore
The Port Authority of N.Y.& N.J. police dept

January 7, 2005

Thank you for every second,every minute, every hour, every day, every night,every holiday,every weekend,every month every year you have given to your community.
thank you for your caring,commitment,understanding,patience,friendship,trustworthiness,morals,values,honesty,reassuring presence,courage.
thank you for being a good friend,father,mentor,listener,mediator,lawyer,docotor,teacher,preacher,gaurdian,HERO,
Thank you for all your community service,all the people and kids you helped,all the smiles,hellos good mornings! how ya doings? can i help you"S shake of the hands.
Thank you for all the comfort you ever offered,every hug you ever given,every hand you ever held, every tear you ever wiped away.
thank you for all your fears,tears,anger,frustration,heartache,heartbreak,headaches,muscle aches.. that you suffered for your community.
thank you for answering every call,for putting your life on the line, for giving your life. for making a diffrence in our lives, for making a diffrence in all the lives of the people you served.
Thank you again. REST IN PEACE.
GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY
A former VOLUSHA COUNTY RESIDENT. NOW POLICE OFFICER. NEW HAVEN,CT

OFFICER JODIANNE NOVELLA
NEW HAVEN POLICE DEPARTMENT NEW HAVEN CT

January 2, 2005

When Jesus welcomed Bob Grim home to heaven he surely said, "well done my good and faithful servant."

A friend of OBPD

January 1, 2005

It was an honor to have known you. You were truly an inspiration for those of us who worked with you. I will always remember your hearty laugh, your warm smile and your words of encourgement. You will truly be missed. Rest in peace brother.

Sgt. Tony Minnis
Orange County Sheriff's Office

December 27, 2004