Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Police Officer Douglas Edward Wendel

Richmond Police Department, Virginia

End of Watch Wednesday, July 30, 2003

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Reflections for Police Officer Douglas Edward Wendel

DEAREST DOUG NOTHING NEW JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU AND REALLY REALLY MISS YOU AND YOUR CALLS. GOD BLESS YOU AND PLEASE WATCH OVER US. ALL MY LOVE FOREVER AND EVER YOUR MOM XXXXOOOO

MARILYN WENDEL
MOM

October 28, 2007

Doug...you have gotten quite a bit of new arrivals from Richmond. I know you welcomed Wink in as an old friend would. Keep watch over his family. We will keep them in our prayers. As always, We love you.

October 15, 2007

We know you are there, with us, watching over us, loving us...while life goes forward, you will always be part of who we are. we love you-then,now,forever.

September 14, 2007

We all think of you Doug.

We all grew up, drifted apart a bit, but Forest City, the Shanty, cruising around, BLT's, working out at your house, still fresh in our minds like it was yesterday.

So many memories. We'll never forget, you know that.

Rest Easy

Gary Shapiro
Nassau P.D. & Forest City - N.Y.

August 13, 2007

A little more than 4 years later, and I continue to pray that the Lord, may comfort your family. I watch the new notes, and realize that Doug Wendel is a loved man.

Peace to all of you..

Richmond #1700
former Richmond PD

August 13, 2007

i miss you doug.

more than anything.
noone and nothing could ever replace you.

i had a dream about your funeral last night.
it was just like a replay.
you know?
i woke up crying.:[

i miss you.

i think about you everyday.

and i miss you more and more everyday.
im sorry the comments stopped for a while
but im back now..

i will comment you again later.

i love you.
<3

fjasfd.

August 6, 2007

To Officer Wendel's family--

As you decompress from camp, just wanted to remind you that someone from Wisconsin is thinking of you. You all inspire me--spending time with all of us on the anniversary date takes courage and strength.

A special hello to the "kid" at camp who I didn't get to see this year.

Miss Mary

August 5, 2007

Doug-you will be forever missed, and are thought of always. We know you watch over us and know how much we love and miss you. Keep us in your watchcare...We love you!

just me

July 31, 2007

doug,

its been four years.
wow.
but you know..
it still hurts like yesterday.
it still hasnt gotten better.
but, in my heart you will stay, forever.

..

July 30, 2007

i miss you doug. more than anything.
its hard here with out you.
and i miss you doug. so so so much.

akjsd.

July 30, 2007

07-30-2007
On this 4th anniversary of your passing, we pause to remember. Rest in peace Doug, job well done. Know that your bothers and sisters here have not forgotten you. To the family of Officer Doug Wendel and especially Marilyn Wendel I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of freedom. Doug you may be gone but know you will never be forgotten.

Master Deputy
Chesterfield County Sheriff's office Va.

July 30, 2007

Thinking about you and your family today. May God continue to bless your family and friends.

Officer
Chesterfield County Police Department

July 30, 2007

Officer Wendel,
Today marks the fourth anniversary of your EOW. We are remembering your sacrifice, and are thinking of your loved ones and friends. Your bravery is unmatched, as is anyone's who chooses this profession. You will always have my utmost respect. Thank you.

Pennsylvania citizen

July 30, 2007

doug,

i wanted to let you know i love you.
and that im sorry for being mad at you that day at vcc.
i was 9. i got mad at everything i was a little brat.
but im sorry. i feel so bad for being mad at you the last time i saw you.
i replay what happened when i found out.
the expressions on everyones faces.
the tears.
but i love you doug, and i miss you so so so much.
your picture is beside my bed on my wall.
and thats where it will stay.
your cell phone is in my drawer.
and every now and then i just look at it and stare.
its so hard to belive you're actually gone you know?
like its been almost four years now. but it still hurts like yesterday.
i love you.

jkfadf

July 27, 2007

I CAN REMEMBER 4 YEARS AGO AS IF IT WERE TODAY. THE SHOCK THAT MY BELOVED SON WAS SHOT AND HE NO LONGER WOULD BE CALLING ME TELLING MOM I LOVE YOU. I MISS YOU EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE. YOUR WHOLE FAMILY MISSESS YOU TERRIBLY. WE HOPE THAT THAT NOW 21 YEAR OLD KID NEVER LIVES A DAY IN PEACE. YOU ARE LOOKING DOWN ON US I KNOW BUT WISH WE COUL SEE THAT HANDSOME FACE OF YOURS IN PERSON. I LOOK INTO THE CLOUDS TO SEE YOUR REFLECTION GOD BLESS YOU MY DEAR SON I WILL ALWAYS WILL AND PRAY YOUR AT PEACE WATCHING US. 4 YEARS OF REMEMBERING AND MISSING YOU. GOD BLESS . I LOVE YOU YOUR BELOVED MOM XXXXXXX0000000

MARILYN WENDEL
MOTHER

July 26, 2007

Doug-
time takes away the sharpness of the pain, but nothing dims the memories. You will always be in our hearts! It is hard to believe that it has been 4 years. We miss you and love you always.

just me

July 13, 2007

DREAST DOUG .. TODAY IS FATHERS DAY . I KNOW YOU MISS YOU CHILDREN YOU MAY BE VERY PROUD OF THEM. THEY ARE GROWING UP INTO BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE. THEY MISS YOU VERY MUCH. I TALK TO THEM EVERY WEEK AND ERICH CALLS ME. HE IS YOU ALL OVER AGAIN RIGHT TO LONG HAIR. I MI8S YOU SO MUCH . DAYYS LIKE THIS ARE VERY HARD.I HOPE YOU AND DAD ARE SPENDING TODAY AS FATHERS DAY. AND MY DAD ALSO. MISS YOU ALL. GOD BLESS YOU . ALL MY LOVE YOUR BELOVED MOM XXXXOOOO

MARILYN WENDEL
MOTHER

June 17, 2007

Doug,
Rest In Peace Brother. My prayers are with your family, friends and coworkers.

Officer Dwight Rackley
Louisville Metro PD, KY

May 24, 2007

MY DEAR SON DOUG. IT IS 4 YEARS THAT I COULD NOT TELL YOU I LOVE YOU IN PERSON I LOVE HAVING YOU AS A SON. MOTHERS DAY MEANS SO MUCH AS A MOTHER TO BE ABLE TO TELL THEIR CHILDREN HOW MUCH THEY MEAN . I HOPE YOU REMEMBER HOW I ALWAYS TOLD YOU HERE ON EARTH UNTIL I CAN TELL YOU UP THERE . MY FLOWERS WERE BEAUTIFUL FROM YOU. GOD BLESS YOU MY SON. ALL MY LOVE FOREVER AND EVER. YOUR MOM XXXXXXXOOOOOOO

MARILYN WENDEL
MOTHER

May 14, 2007

Doug.....holy shit man.......This is the first message I have ever left to you.....


I hurt, thinking about you and our future.....what might have been.

I want to smoke a cigarette with you on St. Peter's gates!!!

I love and miss you brother....
I think of you often......

Cheers!
Mark Bolger

patrolman
Richmond Police

May 6, 2007

MY DEAREST SON TODAY YOU WOULD BE 45. 45HUGS AND KISSES TO YOU I HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A PARTY UP THERE. I KNOW GRANDMA WOULD GIVE YOU ONE I AM SURE DAD HAS ALREADY WISHED YOU A GOOD BIRTHDAY NOT KNOWING HOW IT IS DONE UP THERE BUT I AM SURE EVERYONE IS CELEBRATING. I MISS YOU SO WE ALWAYS CELEBRATED TOGETHER HERES TO YOU.IT IS A BEAUTIFUL DAY DOWN HERE. YOUR MY ANGEL AND ALWAYS WILL BE GOD BLESS ALL MY LOVE FOREVER AND EVER YOURBELOVED MOM XXXXXXX000000


MOTHER

April 11, 2007

DEAREST DOUG IT IS EASTER AGAIN I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH . I REMEMBER THE FUN TIME WE HAD FINDING THE EASTER EGGS . FIRST OF ALL COLLORING THEM, WRITING NAMES ON THEM. OH WHAT A GOOD TIME WE HAD. I AM DOING OK, MISS DAD AND ARLENE. THE HOUSE IS SO BIG WITHOUT YOU ALL. I KNOW YOU ARE ONE OF MY GUARDIAN ANGELS BUT WISH I COULD HUG YOU. I KNOW YOU ARE HERE BUT/ I A FEW DAYS WE WILL CELEBRATE OUR BIRTHDAYS. . ANOTHER ONE OF YOUR COMRADS JOINED YOU LAST WEEK. SHOOK I HOPE YOU GREETED HIM. GARRY MISSESS YOU SO .... SHOW HIMA SIGN OK. WELL MY DEAREST SON GOD BLESS AND KNOW I MISS YOU MORE AND MORE ... ALL MY LOVE FOREVERYOUR MOM XXXXXXOOOOOO


MOTHER

April 7, 2007

MY DEAREST SON DOUG WELL ANOYHER CHRISTMAS HAS COME AND GONE ALSO A NEW YEARS. IT DOESNT SEEM POSSIBLE THAT IT IS 2007. I MISS YOU SO VERY VERY MUCH I HOPE YOU AND DAD ARE LOOKING OUT FOR ONE ANOTHER YOU ARE MY ANGEL UP THERE YOU KNOW ERICH AND BRIGITTE WERE HERE THIS PAST WEEK I LOVE THEM SO MUCH I WISH I WAS CLOSE TO THEM SO I COULD SEE THEM MORE OFTEN. CHARLIE DIDNT COME THIS TIME. I RECEIVED MANY CARDS FROM YOU COMRADS IN VIRGINIA THEY CERTAINLY HAVENT FORGOTTEN YOU. IT MAKES ME FEEL SO GOOD THEY ALL ADMIRED YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE I LOVE YOU DOUG MY DEAR SO GOD BLESS FOREVER YOUR BELOVED MOM XXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOO

MOTHER

January 2, 2007

i miss you more than anything. know that we love you.

its just me.

November 28, 2006

DEAREST DOUG ANOTHER THANKSGIVING AND I MISS YOU MORE MORE. FAMILY WAS TOGETHER BUT NOW WE ALSO MISSED ARLENE. EVERONE MISSES YOU SO. BUT I GOT THE WHOLE TAIL I RAISED IT UP TO YOU WASIT GOOD YOUR MOM IS LOOSING IT HA. I LOVE YOU AND EVERYONE HERE MISSES YOU. GOD BLESS MY SON YOUR LOVING MOM.XXXXOOOO

MARILYN WENDEL
MOM

November 26, 2006

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