 | Sergeant Dario Scott Aponte
New Haven Police Department
Connecticut
Wednesday, September 10, 2008 |
Hi Daddy,
Today is Veterans Day. I talked about you today in school and started to cry in front of my whole class today. Was not a good day in school today. I miss you so much that it hurts.I just finished my season for football and doing basketball. I will miss seeing Brandon and you sitting in the stands cheering for me. I will also be doing winter lacrosse this year.I did my spanish project about you last week. Was not easy to do my knees where shaking and couldn't even talk, but my teacher helped me. I visit you at the cementary all the time. I miss you so much, it is so hard. I love you. I know you are my angel watching over me. I Love you always and no one can take that away from me. I miss you so much! Love you'r son, Scott Son,Scott
Son
2009-11-11
Dear Scott
It has been a year since your death however, it feels like it was just yesterday. I will never forget that horrible night. It doesn't get better with time. My love for you is the same as the first day we met. Brandon and Andrue are growing up into wonderful boys. I see your reflection in them every time I look into their eyes.
LOVE YOU FOREVER
Donna,Brandon and Andrue Donna Aponte
Wife
2009-10-30
Hi Scott,
Mike and the kids came home this weekend. We were able to have Pop and Aunt Lucy's kids here too (the girls came). We missed you. Mike is getting ready to go to Germany. Meadow is so adorable. Charlie was really great with her. Denise Dow
Sister
2009-10-12
Your heroism and service is honored today, the first anniversary of your death. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.
To Scott's family: I hold you all in my heart's embrace and pray for your solace. To his mother, I share your anquish in losing a beloved child which is surely life's greatest sorrow and hold you in thought and prayer.
Rest In Peace
Phyllis Loya Anonymous
2009-09-22
To my husband Its been a year since your death and I remember that nightmare like it was yesterday your memory will live on through Andrue and Brandon. They look like you more and more each day. You will always live in my hart forever.
You dont need a memorial to be remembered you will always be remembered in are harts.
LOVE ALWAYS YOUR WIFE DONNA APONTE Donna Aponte
Wife
2009-09-13
A year ago on September 10, 2009 I lost my brother Scott. Many new him as Sgt Dario Aponte, some new him as Dario, I new him as Scott. I am a Washington Redskin fan because of him. This past Thursday I awoke at the exact time my parents called me to tell me he was gone. I spent the rest of the day remembering him. I went to the cementary, I am sorry Scott but I won't return there. I went to see his memorial at the New Haven Police Department, Scott you would be proud of how you were honored, I will go back there. Scott touched many hearts in his short life. I still remember sitting as a Freshman in auto shop at Eli Whitney and watching him joke with friends, he was a Junior. I remember on Sundays when he would joke with his father about the Giants. Yes Scott they play each other today. My memories travel a large spectrum, but one thing will never change, I love him. I can't say "loved" since I will always love my brother.
Scott, I can't pick up a phone or run into you downtown, but I can speak to you, remember you and love you.
LOVE always, Dee Denise Dow
Sister
2009-09-13
Scotty: You left us a year ago today but it still feels so new. The tragic accident that took your life and still leaves Diane fighting for hers affected not just your friends and family, but an entire community. Not having the two of you at our NHPD home has left an empty spot that can never be filled. We miss you and love you! <3 Det. Renee J. Luneau
New Haven Police
2009-09-10
To Sgt. Dario Scott Aponte, his family and his fellow officers with the New Haven Police Department:
Our heartfelt thoughts are with you on the anniversary of Sgt. Aponte’s tragic death and we honor him for his valor and sacrifice to the community. Rest in Peace, Sgt. Aponte and thank you for your service. Wives Behind The Badge, Inc
Memebrs and Staff
2009-09-10
Hey Scotty! As the one year anniversary of your death nears, I am saddened still by your passing. Amanda and I talk about you all the time! We miss you terribly in the unit. I must say once a day " I miss Scotty," and Amanda replies, "I know me too." Your pictures are still hanging up on the wall. We continue to tell the funny stories about you and Walter and everything that happened over the years. Every time there is a promotion in the detective division, Amanda reminds me of when you made detective and you thought you received Walter's assignment! I cant believe your gone. I have spent time with Donna and the boys. You know how I love my little Brandon. Andrue is a spitting image of you Scotty and an absolute doll baby. Please continue to watch over those that love and miss you! Detective Bridget Brosnahan
New Haven Police Department
2009-09-06
Scott,
I cant begin to tell you how much I Miss you and Love you! I Look at our boys and see your reflection in them. There is not a day that goes by that I do not say how the boys are like you. They are what keeps me going. I will do everthing to protect them. Every morning I wake up and see you are not besides me and think this is all a nightmare and you will be come home. Scott our two boys love you and miss you!
You will always be in our hearts, Love Your little boys Brandon,Andrue and Donna Aponte Donna Aponte
Wife
2009-07-20
This is to Scott, the brother I miss everyday. The night the call came I could not believe, as the days went on I still struggled with the thought you were gone. On May 28th when I celebrated my wedding anniversary Chuck and I were saddened, remembering the fun of that day. You wearing a tux the first time and the famous "Zima" you started at our rehearsal dinner. This was the first year I didn't watch the video, I just couldn't it hurt too much.
When we gather, Pop, my mom and the large Aponte family you left behind, we can always remember something you did or said that brings a smile to our faces. Though time continues to pass, the pain lingers. Life is not always fair, but I believe you are with God. I know you watch over all of us as we all continue to miss and love you.
Mike is coming home for a few weeks, though we email I haven't seen him since September. I see Darin more at Pop's and he is doing ok. Pop misses you everyday. Your two girls, their children and little Scott were at the house a few weeks ago. As usual a lot of laughter was present remembering you.
My memories of you will be with me forever, and I will continue to share them with your nephews Charlie and Matt. The space in my heart that was for you alone won't heal, but I will continue to live with your memory, smile and laugh forever.
I LOVE and MISS you,
your sister forever,
Dee Denise Dow
Sister
2009-06-06
Scott,
Donna and I went to the New York Shields breakfast this morning, where you were one of many honored. We laughed as we drove down and reflected on many stories....some involving the DUI roadblocks we worked together. It was a beautiful ceremony and Donna looked so proud as they put the medal around her neck. The boys will proudly wear and display it, I'm sure. We've attended Washington DC,CT's law enforcemtn memorial, and now this...but it's still so hard to believe you're gone. You are missed more than words can convey. We know you are doing a diligent job watching over your friends and family....you never left a job undone. We love you buddy! Det. Renee J. Luneau
New Haven Police
2009-05-31
I am Glenda Johnson the mother of,Sergeant Dario Scott Aponte.There are no words to describe how I feel.It is a great loss, I miss him so much.I'm still having a hard time, it still doesn't seem real.He was a wonderful son. I'm so proud of him. I have always been proud of him.My heart is breaking, I long for my son. I'm not only hurting for myself, but also hurt for my grand kids.For all that don't know I had 5 grand children by my Scotty.He loved all the same. their names are: Sherrna, Ashleigh, Little Scott, Brandon,and Andrew. To Sadera, Lisa,Fran, and Donna, I want to thank you and Scott for giving me such beautiful grand children. I love you all. I want to thank the New Haven Fire Department, Ambulance, all of the Law Enforcement and especially the New Haven Police Department, for all the support you gave me during the funeral and after. When ever I call the police department you guys are always there for me. Thank you, Mat God Bless all of the Law Enforcements. My thoughts and prayers also do out to Diane and her family. I am so sorry. May God Bless you. Anonymous
2009-04-23
Scott,
I sit here today, after leaving reflections for the 4 Oakland officers who also made the ultimate sacrifice, reflecting on you, Danny and Rob. My heart breaks for them and their families, as it did and does for you and your family. Donna is an amazing woman! You would be so proud of her and the kids. I miss you, your great smile and your kind words. I can't believe it's been six months since God took you from us. You will always be remembered! Lt. Lisa Dadio
New Haven Police Department, CT.
2009-03-24
The wicked fleee where no man pursueth, but the righteous are bold as a lion.
Proverbs 28:1
May God be with you and all who mourn you. May he give them the strength to carry on.
Friend of Off. Kris Fairbanks RIP 9-20-08 K.L.
2009-03-06
scott i love and miss you so much
may you R.I.P Anonymous
2009-01-08
Dear Donna and Aponte Family,
There are no simple words to express another's feelings to you when your own pain is so deep and so strong. I am sure that this Christmas was a very difficult time for all as are all the other days that seem to fly right by us. Some days will be easier..and then there will be others that will not. Cherish the memories that you hold in your heart. No one can ever take them away from you.
You are in my prayers and I ask God to give you all the strength to face the days that lie ahead. Scott (Dad) was called to do more important work in Heaven with Officer Picagli and Officer Fumiatti. Remember how proud he was to wear that uniform . The three of them are once again "working the shifts together". Anonymous
2009-01-04
Merry Christmas Scott. Donna and the kids are often in my thoughts, moreso during this difficult time of year.
In due time, the pain will ease and the holidays will yet again, be joyous occasions.
I know you are with them in spirit and trust that you will continue to guide & protect them just as you would if you were still with them.
You were, are, and will always be their "HERO".
God Bless You! Tina
Sister-in-law of Officer Dan Picagli
2008-12-25
Scotty, this weekend we went to the Giants/Skins game as always but it wasn't the same. We missed a big a piece of the trip......... you. Although we talked about you and said how you were there with us getting wet in the pouring rain, it just wasn't as much fun. I guess it never will be but we will keep going every year and someday we will win in Washington. Miss you bro, GO SKINS. WU. Detective Michael Wuchek
New Haven Police Department
2008-12-04
I come to the ODMP often to remember my late fiancé Dennis. Everytime I come here it breaks my heart to know that yet another officer has fallen and that yet another family has to live their lives without the man they loved. My heart goes out to everyone who knew and loved Sergeant Aponte. Know that you are not alone in the "journey" that you walk. Should you ever need anything please don't hesitate to contact me. The Davis Co. Sheriff's Office in Iowa will always know how to reach me. I can also be found on face book. You will be in my thoughts.
From reading the reflections left for Dario, he sounds like he was a great man with a beautiful spirit. Those of you who knew him in life were so blessed to have been able to share in it. I hope that you will all continue to find a way to celebrate and remember Dario's life and the MAN that he was. Remember that Dario's life was about so much more than the way he died. Dario will continue to live on as long as we continue to remember him.
Sergeant Aponte, thank you for helping to make this world a little safer for us all. YOU will not be forgotten. Please continue to watch over all of us as only you can. If you happen to bump into my late fiancé Dennis up there give him a big hug for me and the kids. It's been almost six years but we still miss him terribly.
Wishing you brighter and better days,
Jocelyne :)
"Forever Remembering 26-3" Jocelyne Brar (Winnipeg, MB Canada)
Fiancee of Deputy Dennis R. McElderry (EOW: 01/03/03)
2008-11-08
I think of all the funny things you did and all the good memories I have from knowing you. You're missed. Another Officer
2008-11-02
Hey Scotty!
There is not a day that goes by that I dont think of you! I just keep saying "I cant believe he is gone." Your pictures are hanging up in our office and for some reason I keep finding new ones to add! Scotty we all miss you so much and my heart still hurts. We laugh about the funniest things you did or said and it helps the hurt for a bit. We are planning a signal 4 party for you and your family and I know you will be there too! Scotty you were such a good friend to me and it hurts to lose a friend like you. I miss you so much. Rest peacefully my brother... Detective Bridget Brosnahan
New Haven Police Department
2008-11-02
Officer Aponte.
THanks for all the help and guidance you have given me over the years even though it may seems like i Never listend. I know you are still looking down on your friends and family smiling down on us. Your memory and your Legacy will always live on as One of NEW HAVEN's finest. You are and always will be one of NEW HAVEN's FINEST.
Love Always
Nicole L. Bradley SrA USAF SrA Nicole L. Bradley
Friend of Daughter
2008-10-21
May God lay his healing hand upon the family of Sergeant Aponte and may they know he will never be forgotten. Thank you Sergeant Aponte for your dedicated service to the people of Connecticut and the United States. James Sheppard
Father of Jason L. Sheppard EOW 12/7/06
2008-10-17
REST IN PEACE, BROTHER. F OFCR WINSLOW
FEDERAL POLICE
2008-10-11
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