Officer Down Memorial Page

You are my heart and soul, and always on my mind, but never more than when we head to DC for Peace Officers Memorial Week services. Hopefully, we can be of help to other families, facing such impossible loss. You are so deeply missed every day in our home, loved beyond words, and we will honor you by going forward, for you, for the rest of our lives. I love you Paul.....forever, for always, and no matter what. 9-4

Maryellen
wife
May 12, 2012

Hey Bub: Today was a very big day in your's n ME's life and in ours...E,A n C....were born and turned 16 today,,,,you would be sooo proud of all your children and ME...they are a wonderful group of people and ME deserves so much credit...never even thought to drop the ball ever...you are missed in all of our lives and will always be....Love you, Pal....Love Mum,,,,Dad,,,,Edward,,,,Mary et al...watch over all of us from your better place ...

Eleanor Barry
Mother
January 8, 2012

As the New year is here and it sit and think, you hit the top of the list. I know I haven't wrote much lately and that doesn't mean your not on my mind. Not a day goes by that I don't travel past the spot we meet on the highway that morning. Not a day goes by that I don't travel under the overpass that bears your name. The job I have now puts me at the State Police training academy.... Yhat is the most wounderful place. The thoughts of you hit me the hardest when I go there.. Don't ever think for one day Paul theat I could ever forget about you.. That will never happen.. Watch down on us and take very special care of your loved one's..

Eugene Chemelowski E.M.T.- I.
January 2, 2012

Hard to believe sweetheart, our 6th Christmas without you right here with us. I don't know really, how we've gone forward without you, but we had to. Hard time of the year for our babes, so watch over them extra honey....they miss their Daddy so much, not just at Christmas, they miss you and our old life every day. They're amazing kids Paul.....I see you in each and every one of them. Their goodness, kindness and strength of character, and their compassion, patience and tolerance. You would be so proud of them, and I know you are. They never want to be treated differently, or pull 'the sympathy card', as so many kids and people would. They hate that nonsense, like you and I always did, and strive to be normal and regular. And they are. Rest easy my guy, I have our watch and will see our family through. You and our seven children are the best thing that ever happened to me, the greatest blessing I've ever received, and so much more than I ever expected to be given in my life. You are forever loved and deeply missed.....not just at Christmas or the New Year, but each and every day in our home. For me, you were home. I love you Paul, forever for always, and no matter what. 9-4

Maryellen
wife
December 25, 2011

Hey Bub: facing yet another Christmas without you...I really dread the holidays...now that we dont have you with us..You were always such a "kid" for them...I pretend for the children's sake...but miss you so very much I cannot enjoy the "happy" times...Love you, Pal,miss you forever..Love Mum,,,,Dad,,,,Edward,,,,and Mary et al.

Eleanor Barry
Mother
December 23, 2011

thinking of you and your family today and always!!

Gene & Allyson Chemelowski
December 17, 2011

Trooper Barry I visit your page and I will never forget meeting your amazing family at the memorial. It was my honor to represent you. RIP

Deputy Christopher Geary
York County Sheriff's Office
November 29, 2011

Hey Bub ...Happy Thanksgiving...you were missed today ...as you are every day.....your boy turned 17 today...good grief you would be sooo proud of your children...they are awesome, as you were...Love yoy Pal....Love you...Mum,,,,Dad,,,,Edward,,,,Mary,,,,et al

Eleanor Barry
Mother
November 24, 2011

Hey Bub...Happy Halloween...one of your favorite days...gave out candy at Mary's...had a ton of kids.....ME had a Mass over the weekend for you...it's always bitter sweet....you are missing but love to see ME and kids...they are growing beautifully....from the little one to the oldest....they are a credit to you and of course to ME...Love you Pal...you are missed sooo much...Love Mum,,,,Dad,,,,Edward,,,,Mary ,,,et al

Eleanor Barry
Mother
October 31, 2011

Hey Bub: Just wanted to say I woke up this morning missing you like crazy...no special reason...some days are like this....miss you so each n every day....Love you Pal..Mum,,,Dad,,,Edward,,,Mary,,,et al

Eleanor Barry
Mother
October 12, 2011

19 years ago today...I made the best choice I ever made in my life. I married my best friend. Our 16 years together were a blessing, a moment in time, and we were so lucky, and so greatly blessed with our seven amazing children. Crazily, and astonishingly, we'll be at your 5th Memorial Golf Tournament today....it just happened to fall on 'our date'. I love you Paul, more than words can ever say. The kids and I miss you......so deeply, all the time.......every day.....we stay the course, for you, honey, ....forever, for always and no matter what......I love you most

ME

Maryellen
wife
September 26, 2011

Hey Bub: tomorrow is your birthday, it used to be one of my happiest days,,now it's one of my sadest ones...you are missed each and every day of our lives....Happy Birthday, Pal you are loved forever.....Mum, Dad, Edward, Mary et al

Eleanor Barry
Mother
August 25, 2011

Thinking today Paul, about your amazing life, how you chose to live your life, and what you accomplished in your much too short 39 years. Your life and legacy lives on, through our beautiful children....the greatest gifts we ever gave to each other......I see so much of you in each of them..... all the best of you and me is in the 7 of them, and they so remind me of you in different ways........it's a blessing, and a comfort. I know you're so proud of our children~ they're growing by leaps and bounds, and they "stay the course" with me. Like you, they're incredible, and a gift to this world. Please keep watch over them, protect and guide them as you can....you are so deeply missed, more than I could ever say in words. Rest easy honey......I have our watch, and promise you always that I'll do my absolute best to see our family through. I love you Paul, forever, for always, and no matter what. ME

Maryellen
Wife
June 15, 2011

Love you to the moon and back Paul

We will miss you forever son.

Love
Dad

Ed Barry
Father
June 15, 2011

Hey Bub, it's been 5 years,tomorrow since you left us....we"ve learned something "time does not heal"....we miss you each n everyday....you are always with us....and loved so much....your family is growing and they are beautilful people.....ME is so strong for them...she is terrific...Love you forever, Mum,,,Dad,,,Edward,,,Mary,,,et al.

Eleanor Barry
Mother
June 14, 2011

Paul-
Over the Memorial Day Weekend Mike and I (as well as friend of ours) ran Boston's Run to Remember- Half Marathon in honor of you. Every step we took, we took in your memory. You were in our hearts every step of the way. I don't think I could have finished had I not had you, Maryellen, and the kids on my mind and in my heart. The race started and ended at the 7-11 you and Mike frequented on details, you to get your ice cream sandwich.....brought back a lot of memories for Mike- tears of happiness and sadness. We continue to think of you every day, Maryellen and the kids are in our prayers.

Our love and many hugs sent to you in heaven.

Blake Riley
Friend
May 31, 2011

Thinking of you honey, even more today, on Michaela's 11th birthday. Your flower, our 5th angel blessing. Miss you more as time goes on Paul, love you till forever. 9-4
ME

Maryellen
March 13, 2011

Thinking of you today!!

allyson chemelowski
February 10, 2011

Hey, Bub: Snow, snow, snow and more snow...you would enjoy this winter and you'd have the skiers you didn't have before....your children love to ski n snowboarding...E, A and C turned 15 and now there are 4 teens and all are ready to "drive"...Ugh, watch over all your children and ME, she is doing a great job....miss you more as time goes on...Love you, pal, Mum, Dad,Edward,Mary et al.....

Eleanor Barry
Mother
January 27, 2011

Thinking of you as we start the new year as I do every shift. Your spirit lives on here in Maine.

Trooper
Maine State Police
January 4, 2011

Hey Bub: Starting another new year without you....don't think it will get any easier...you are missed so...each and every day....I think of you in everything we do or plan to do....and there's always that "hole", where you should be...your family is growing into a bunch of great people...we can see you in each one of them....keep helping ME from up there, she is doing a great job with the kids....you are loved and missed by all...Love you, Mum..Dad..Edward..Mary..et al

Eleanor Barry
Mother
January 2, 2011

Paul, thinking of you as I always do, protect us from above and please try and ease the burden that my husband carrys with him every day, I thougth it would get easier as time went on, but I was wrong!! rest easy, and fly with the angles!!

allyson chemelowski
December 29, 2010

As time goes on we miss you more deeply than words can express Paul, on Christmas.......and every day. We love you always. 9-4

Maryellen,Nick,Emily, Ali, Colin, Michaela,James and Elizabeth

Maryellen
wife
December 25, 2010

Hey Bub: as soon as I sent my message last nite I realized I never mentioned ME n KT as helping Dad...and the kids were into it also.....Love you Pal...Mum

Eleanor Barry
Mother
December 6, 2010

Hey Bub: Its Mum, today is my birthday and Dad had a surprise party ..He did a great job with the help of Mary n Edward...it was so musch fun...all of our family was there and my siblings and Dad's...I missed you very much, as usual, but on my mirror in my room is a picture of the message you left for me on one of B-days on Florida street it says in you hand writing "Happy Birthday, Mum" Love you # 2....and I love it.......Dad found it for me a year or so ago....but you were only #2 in birth order but never in my love for you.....Love n miss you in everything we do....Love you, Pal....Mum, Dad, Edward, Mary etal.....your kids are the greatest and ME is a super Mom....

Eleanor Barry
Mother
December 5, 2010