Officer Down Memorial Page

Tom,
Your love surrounds us and the memories give us strength - and smiles. There is so much to say, but those eyes keep getting kind of watery....you know. We just miss you so very much.

Ingrid
Mom
March 3, 2012

The 8th anniversary of you being called away has arrived. There are people who will say that it seems only like yesterday, but for those that are close to you and love you dearly, it has felt like a lifetime since they heard your voice, saw your smile and felt your warm touch. Continue to keep watch over your loved ones. Wrap your wings around them and help them with their grief. You have not been forgotten.

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." From a Headstone in ireland

Bob Gordon
Father of Fallen Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
March 3, 2012

Tom,

Today marks another year that you have been gone. At times it still does not seem real and I hope I will wake up and find it has all been a bad dream.

I often wonder what life would look like if you were still here. Along with the sorrow I have also had many great things happen in the last eight years. (In case you are wondering, I would trade them all to have you back.)

Then I wonder what you would look like. Would you have found a gray hair yet? Would your hairline take after dad or would you be starting to thin out? Would you finally really need that nose hair clipper that you asked for one Christmas? What kind of interesting cases would you be working on? So many questions that will remain unanswered, but this I know for sure...you will always be the best big brother! You are my hero and I miss you so much!
Love,
Gia

Gia Nelson
Sister
March 3, 2012

Tom,
I miss you so much!
Gia

Gia Nelson
sister
December 25, 2011

Thinking of you and all of your loved ones on this blessed holdiay. Continue to keep watch over them. You have not been forgotten

Bob Gordon
Father of Fallen Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
December 24, 2011

May 15th, Law Enforcement Memorial Day

Thinking of you and all of your loved ones on this day and every day. Continue to keep watch over all of your loved ones, come to them in their dreams and let them feel your presence and that you are watching over them. Thank you for being the hero that you are and for your dedicated service to law enforcement.

Bob Gordon
Father of Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
May 14, 2011

I was in DC for last night's candlelight vigil as part of National Peace Officers' Week and was able to find Tom's name and make a rubbing. Great memories came back of some laughs and good times. Today I took part in the COPS Kids program at the FBI National Academy and was honored to have hopefully assisted some kids in their grieving process. Rest in Peace Tom...Mark

Chief of Police Mark Dalsing
Dubuque (IA) Police Department
May 14, 2011

Mr Wyatt, I read a lot of the reflections left by your sister, parents and others. I never knew you, but it is obvious from how heavy these folks hearts are that you must have been a very important piece of their lives. Although you are gone, I can not help but envy you. In the end, it's not money, power or fame. It's just the leagcy you leave, the people you touch and ultimately how much you're missed. Rest Easy brother.

Lt Amborn
MN D.O.C.
May 5, 2011

Happy Birthday Tom!
I want so much to be able to tell you that in person! Instead, I will spend the day thinking of you, remembering you, and talking about you with anyone who is willing to listen. Just as it did the day you were born, it snowed today, and just as we did for the first 33 years of your life, we will celebrate today because your life made a difference to so many people and even now, you touch our hearts.
Happy Birthday, I love you, I miss you,
Gia

Gia Nelson
Sister
April 20, 2011

Tonight we went out for dinner with Dad and Mom. As I served myself a slice of pizza and had a long string of cheese stretching across the table, it reminded me of you. There are so many little things that bring back great memories of you. I will cherish every memory I have and be thankful for all the great times we had together. Thank you for still making me smile, even on sad days. I sure do miss you!
Love,
Gia

Gia Nelson
Sister
March 3, 2011

Thinking of you and all of your loved ones on this anniversary of you being called away from duty. People say as time goes on, we get better with handling our grief. We do, that is we are able to hold it deep within our hearts and hide it from others. I know a day has not gone by that your loved ones have not thought of you. You will never be forgotten.

"Those we hold most dear never truly leave us. They live on in the kindness they showed, the comfort they shared and the love they brought into our lives." by Norton

Bob Gordon
Father of Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
March 3, 2011

Tom,

This year I have experienced many firsts with our children. Although I believe with all my heart you watch us from above, I miss you by my side. Brienna is driving and has had her first formal dance and Kyle has discovered girls! Our children have grown into amazing teenagers and are living life to the fullest.

There are still many days that my heart feels torn in half whether it is holidays, weddings or just a sad song can trigger a fountain of tears. We love you and continue to live life to the fullest in order to honor you knowing that our happiness was always your top priority. Thanks for giving us such a solid base for our family.

With all my love,
ME

Chanttel Wyatt
Wife
January 8, 2011

I was going through some pictures of my days in the Task Force and got thinking about the "good old days" with you and the boys. Rest in peace Tom.

Mark D - Chief of Police
Dubuque (IA)Police Dept.
November 19, 2010

Hey Tom,

I was missing you so much on my way home tonight that I was fighting back tears. Then I heard on the radio that it is National Brothers Week. Needless to say, that made me miss you even more. I wish I could call you and tell you what a great brother you are! I am so thankful to have had you in my life. You mean so much to me and I love you very much! ~Gia

Gia Nelson
Sister
September 15, 2010

Thinking of you and all of your loved ones today, Police Officer Memorial Day. Continue to watch over your loved ones. I know every day is a challenge for them and that they will carry your precious memories in their hearts and think of you with love every day. You have not been forgotten.

Bob Gordon
Father of Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
May 15, 2010

Happy 40th Birthday Tom! Oh how I wish I could tease you just a little today, even knowing that I would pay dearly next year. I miss you so much!!!
Love,
Gia

Gia Nelson
Sister
April 20, 2010

Tom,

Please know you continue to live on in our hearts daily! Brienna and Kyle are growing up faster than I could have ever imagined, proving to me daily that I am unable to pause life. Thank you for all the blessings you brought into my life and watching over us from above. Our love for you will never fade! Thank you for being an amazing husband and father.

Love you always,

ME

Chanttel Wyatt
Wife
March 3, 2010

Remembering this hero today, your family, friends, coworkers, those who knew you are in my thoughts today.

A hero to more than he knows. ©2004

Emory - Arlignton, WA
brother of Ferry County WA Undersheriff , Matthew J lane, EOW 5/30/03
March 3, 2010

Tom,
Although you are not physically with us any more, you are very present in our lives. Evidence of you is all around, and it picks us up when we are down and makes us smile when smiling doesn't seem possible. You will always be my hero and I will love you forever! I miss you!
Gia

Gia
sister
March 3, 2010

Tom,

Five years - a mere moment in eternity, a lifetime for aching hearts. We miss you so very much each and every day. You are forever loved.

Dad and Mom

Mom and Dad
March 3, 2010

Another year has passed and you are still admired and respectfully remembered in the hearts and minds of so many. My thoughts and prayers are with your loved ones and friends on this anniversary of your EOW. You will never be forgotten.

James Sheppard
Father of Sgt. Jason L. Sheppard EOW 12/7/06
March 3, 2010

Always remembered & honored 4 his service & his ultimate sacrifice.

Joanie
Mother, daughter, sister & granddau. of LEOs
March 3, 2010

Thinking of you and all of your loved ones as Christmas arrives. You have not been forgotten and I know that you will forever be in the hearts of all those that love you.

Bob Gordon
Father of Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
December 23, 2009

Thinking of you and all of your loved ones on May 15th, Police Memorial Day. You have not been forgotten. Continue to keep watch over all of your loved ones.

Bob Gordon
Father of Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
May 15, 2009

Tom,

I wanted more than anything to pick up the phone and wish you a happy birthday. Instead, we went to the memorial and cried, hugged and had a good laugh that we were sure must have came from you. You always had a way of making life a little brighter. You are my hero! I miss you so much!

I love you,
Gia

Gia Nelson
Sister
April 20, 2009